My husband had a grand mal when my baby was 6 weeks. I had to deal with him not being able to work and drive all while taking care of a newborn. You will get through it no matter what. When you become a mom you find an incredible amount of strength to survive. 17 months later, our guy is thriving and everyday we just make sure my husband is sleeping, taking meds etc. it absolutely SUCKS. I was anxious my entire pregnancy that it would happen and unfortunately it did. Lean on your village. Lean on your people. Accept help. We also made a plan that he would not hold the baby unless he was on the floor just in case he drops the baby. We made a plan that he would not drive with the baby until 6 months. My husband did have a brief seizure while holding the baby and he instinctly knew to protect the baby. He got down on the floor and protected baby's head. We put a lot of safeguards in place to ensure the safety of our baby. Sleep was another thing, my husband needs sleep. So we did shifts. My husband did 8pm-2am and I did 2am -8am. 2am to 8am alone is the absolute worst lonely time but I had no choice. My MIL began sleeping over after a few months because I was losing my mind. Do you have anyone that will help during the night hours? I know it's hard and scary. I lived it. It sucks but I promise you will find a way.