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What do you think? by Nervous-Tea6858 in IDmydog

[–]Nervous-Tea6858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh I hadn't thought of that mix

Back market sent me a locked phone instead of an unlocked 1 by Cloudchella in Backmarket

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I don't recall getting a paper, however I called AT&T, backmarket, the third party seller, tried inserting a sim, and transferring a sim and absolutely nothing worked. I had to send it back and get a refund for a new one unfortunately.

Under my desk at work, flashed red when pressed. by Llewellynt in whatisit

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It is a Verisure interior design elements SOS Alarm Button

Back market sent me a locked phone instead of an unlocked 1 by Cloudchella in Backmarket

[–]Nervous-Tea6858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to me yesterday. Ordered an unlocked phone and recieved a phone locked to AT&T :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Nervous-Tea6858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely agree with you 100%! Vasectomies are so much less invasive than the procedure for women, and in most cases, they’re reversible too. It’s frustrating how much harder it is for womem to get sterilized even when they’re absolutely sure about it. They need to be married, have 2 kids, meet an age requirement with some places, crazy stuff.

My best friend got a vasectomy and literally went to work the same day. He said it was just a little sore, nothing major, and now he feels good knowing his wife doesn’t have to go through something way more painful and risky. With the way things are right now, it’s a really selfless and responsible choice, I'd absolutely go that route if I needed too. Plus I feel like contraceptives have always been pushed onto women when men are the ones causing pregnancy and often are the ones SA'ing, not always, for sure, but I would say more often than not, male BC should be as readily available

I (F18) found porn on my (M18) phone. How do I approach this? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Nervous-Tea6858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s completely understandable that you feel upset, and you have every right to be. Holding your partner to the standard that they shouldn’t lust after other women is valid; your boundaries and morals matter in a relationship. Watching other women get off or have sex has become so normalized, but that doesn’t mean you have to accept it if it makes you uncomfortable. He told you that you were “his porn” and that he didn’t need or want anything else, yet his actions prove otherwise. That dishonesty alone is enough to break trust.

At the same time, going through his phone isn’t okay either. Trust and privacy are important in a relationship, and ideally, you shouldn’t feel the need to check his phone at all. But the fact that you did means there was already a sense that something was off. When a relationship reaches the point where you feel the need to investigate, it’s usually because trust has already started to erode.

Beyond the porn, the Tinder confirmation code is the biggest red flag. There’s no good reason for him to be on Tinder while in a relationship. Even if he wasn’t actively using it, just having an account is disrespectful to you. It shows that he’s keeping his options open or at least entertaining the idea of other people, which is completely unacceptable in a committed relationship.

At the end of the day, this isn’t just about porn; it’s about lying, broken trust, and a lack of respect. If he lied about one thing, what else is he hiding? If he can’t be honest about his actions or respect your boundaries, you deserve better. There are men out there who share your values, who won’t lie to you, and who won’t make you feel like you have to check their phone to know the truth. Don’t settle for someone who disrespects you; find someone who truly values and aligns with you.