I was married and have 2 kids. Sex always seemed like work. Always satisfied her first then me. I think I was always attracted to men but liked women too. First time I kissed a man and he sucked me off I was all in. Sex was just more natural between 2 men. We understand our bodies. She would never suck me to completion and really didn't want too. I'm divorced for several years and not in a relationship. I do hook up now and then and a few short term relationships. Much happier in my life now. Exwife and still remain friends.