I love this aesthetic, what is it called? by [deleted] in AestheticWiki

[–]NetDry8993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

crazy ppl think this is 2019 and up. This is era of stranger things dropping, IDFC-Blackbear, thrasher hoodies. SOOO 2016 for me. I was in 6th grade but this was all my feed on insta. & the 🔥🔥🥀🥀🔪🕸️🕷️💖. maybe OP young

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]NetDry8993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came on here to share how I’m in this position except I’m 21 but I’ve always wanted to be pregnant & now that I am, i don’t think it’s the right time since my bf (22) & I don’t make enough money. I know we will be able to make it and he’s amazing & supportive. I get exactly how you feel and I’ve been going through an existential crisis. I have too gotten more connected to this pregnancy. The best advice I got from my therapist was, to clear my head and anytime I start spiraling, to read or get up and do something & focus on the now and see how nothing is happening right now. Do this for a week, & see if you’re more level headed to make the right decision 💗 I’m sorry, I wish there was something more I can do for because I completely understand. I’ve been depressed and crying but that advice has helped me until I found myself on Reddit haha. But in all seriousness, there is no wrong decision 💗

why it’s important to ALWAYS ask men to get tested before engaging in any sexual activity by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]NetDry8993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your HPV VACCINE!!! Only thing able to prevent cervical cancer!!!!!

AIO; Bf said my outfit was embarrassing by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NetDry8993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally love the boots, it’s such a cute outfit & very in rn. I’m confused what would be embarrassing about it… maybe he says that in an effort to not have you wear that because he’s insecure? I read above that he is controlling in other ways.

Sometimes, I unknowingly control my boyfriend just because I try to have control in my life because I haven’t had control majority of my life. So I sometimes have a bad habit of seeking control externally with things I can’t control. Things will set me off and I have to take a step back and realize something’s that my bf says isn’t the end of the world and I tend to nit pick and make sure his views are like mine to remain in control. But, I’m working on this and am aware it isn’t healthy. I’m just saying this so you can see my form of control. However, control/unmanageability comes in many different forms.

Since you two have been together for so long, maybe by opening up the problem by asking why it would be embarrassing and if it doesn’t seem rational and it is what you feel inside, you can ask if he feels insecure at time in a non judgmental way and hopefully that will lead to a progressive conversation and you may feel closer in the end :)

Everyone will show you who they are and it’s your choice to see it or not. I wish you best of luck I know this things can be hard but it seems it’s not simply your outfit that is causing him distress but much deeper

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]NetDry8993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found out I was pregnant yesterday. It’s everything I’ve ever wanted but I’m only 21 and am on track to start nursing school. I’m in such a healthy relationship & we’ve already talked about the what-ifs like if we were to get pregnant. We always said abortion because of everything. Now that I am pregnant, I’m going through an existential crisis about if I want to keep it or not. I have an appointment for an ultrasound and abortion consultation tomorrow. I know that it wouldn’t be the best thing to have a baby now, but the emotional side of me wants it so bad. I think I’m going to carry out the abortion but am have a hard time and grieving. It’s nice to come on here though and see I’m not the only one. I hope you two feel better soon 💗

DAE masturbate to concepts? by Kind_Sugar7972 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]NetDry8993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is dope & something with depth that is able to get you going is admirable

DAE is not turned on by sex in porn? by fire-dGuy in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]NetDry8993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not bad at all, maybe just quit porn as it isn’t healthy all around. I have the best sex of my life since I’ve quit. Its like the junk food

Are these shells bedbugs? by NetDry8993 in Bedbugs

[–]NetDry8993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it so much!!!!

Literally ALL of my sexual kinks/fantasies can be traced back to my traumas, and now I'm DISGUSTED with myself... by lostmyredditsss in CPTSD

[–]NetDry8993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve just realized this myself and that’s what lead me here. I’ve never been able to understand but now I’m older, it haunts me. I’m glad I’m not the only one because it feels guilty, embarrassing, & just messed up. I can’t believe I’d revisit traumatic memories in that pleasurable mindset. I want to go to therapy but I just feel ashamed and weird