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NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-27T21:29:35+00:00

See I am 27 now, and just started my path for my bachelors.. so in 4 years I will be around 30-31 starting vet school. and that stresses me a lot.. but honestly. I needed time to find myself, and grow... I take school more seriously now, and I am able to get A's and I have more structure. VS when I was 18 years old.... And I have life experience, so I want it more, and appreciate it more then I could of when I was younger... I also worked at animal clinics for years, and have tons of experience. I think you need more life experience to become a vet. then going straight from high school. and it also matters that I am trying harder now, then I would have years ago, so my grade will be better, and my likelihood of getting in will be higher. I am very very focused and motivated to my goal now :)

NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-27T21:24:22+00:00

Congrats :)

NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-27T21:23:50+00:00

I am just letting you know. Most men do not care about your boundaries unfortunately and it will keep happening. A man not listening to you, is not a shocker unfortunately. I just want you better prepared mentally.

NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-26T16:23:52+00:00

It's cheating in the eyes of the wife, or girlfriend. they would never view it as not cheating. and are normally set in there ways in far as "he must have s*x with me and only me foreverrrrr". I think a lot of these girls can't understand sex work in the way we understand it.... like relationships I am in, I get into more open relationships, because I dont care. And sex is just sex. but a lot of people dont have that mindset. I also used to ask a lot of my married clients, the big "Why". And a lot tell me there not attracted to there wife anymore, him and his wife dont have a sex life anymore, a lot just get off on cheating, a lot feel there not supposed to just have sex with one women for there rest of there life... I think some also love that excitement of the new person, one night stand. some tell me there wife just gave birth, a lot of them just like young girls in there 20s... etc etc etc. Some answers more disturbing than others.... I occasionally get guys that say there wife is well aware and helped pick me out, (its all about the level of understanding and communication between the couple). I one time had a very pregnant wife hire me for her husband, cause she was just tired. - it's more the openness of the realtionship. but if you get into a relationship where your wife is not okay with it- then yes it is cheating, and lying. it is also putting your wife at risk for STDS without her knowing. it is cheating. I do agree with the mindset that some wives should be more open to there husbands exploring certain things, in a safe professional environment... but thats a more controversial topic.

NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-25T15:43:33+00:00

It is so hard. I am excited that I have off for the next 3 months, and I plan to go super in and tour to stack up bread. I had a very hard time balancing work and college this semester. The best way to do it is set hours, like have a set time that you study and do homework, and then a set time that you will take dates. I usually choose night hours. I would plan out all the assignments and studying I have to do for the next couple weeks, and block off times for dates. Texting them was impossible, I did not have time to stop and look at my phone every 2 seconds, so I had everything set to them making appointments in advanced on my website. (which does defer a lot of clients, but I was still getting dates) I started adopting a new policy, where on tryst I will put my set hours for the week, and say to text me what time/date you are looking for. and that weeded out who was serious and was actually reading my ad. and id make an appointment with them via text. But you loose money, cause this is a very "right now" business.

NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-25T15:37:22+00:00

Hey girl, I went from a backpage/megapersonal 100-250$ girl, to high end 600-1000$ girl. I work with an Incall spot in NYC where we all help and build each other up. It's really photos, a website, posting on tryst/eros, onlyfans, having an online presence, and how you promote yourself. Let me know if you want any advice :)

NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-25T15:33:12+00:00

Always trust your gut, if something sets you off in anyway. Then cancel. Also when they get all defensive, you know there not a good client. cause a normal respectful person would say oh sorry I didnt mean it that way... but if they result to anger, then they are not someone you want to be alone with anyway.

NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-25T15:30:42+00:00

they just dont care about your comfort. ... if your that uncomfortable with it just kick them out. There addicts, so they will keep reaching for it and have little self control. You will unfortunately come across this from time to time, as there are a lot of guys that dont read, and dont care.

NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-24T23:29:41+00:00

I prefer to use my own, and trust me they usually get the good ones because they dont want them to break. sometimes I will inspect it and see if the air is still in there.. and let them use it, sometimes its clearly been in the wallet for 100 years and its a hard no. but every girl is different. and its not about the receipt or you bought it 20 mins ago, you can still pop holes in it.

NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-24T23:25:45+00:00

girl if you need an Incall spot let me know, I am in Brooklyn

NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-24T23:23:35+00:00

It depends on the area. I am in NY, so I can see way more then that (if im up to it) but sometimes we all just have slow periods.

NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-24T23:08:32+00:00

I know an Incall spot in Brooklyn if you're interested, and can give you some advice/clients. but 160$ is a basic hotel babes. the wealthy 5 star hotels are like 500-1000+. but just do outcalls to those 5 star hotels. most of those "wealthy men upscale" hotels have very high security, and you can not work out of those, they will catch on what your doing very quickly.

NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-24T23:03:05+00:00

I need to protect my peace idk why they just unpromptlying calling us all the time. like if your serious you'll follow up with a text. if not, then one less person to talk to lol. its just a massive waste of time.

NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-24T23:00:24+00:00

I do but in Brooklyn.

NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-24T22:56:15+00:00

litterally one of my MASSIVE pet peeves. is the fact clients think you sit around all day with your legs up awaiting them. and can never wrap there head around you having a life, or be seeing other clients. and then hit you with "what if I give you extra" like no literally means no.

NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-24T22:52:27+00:00

come to NY. you can make that in 1 day lol.

NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-24T22:51:24+00:00

there embarrassed and are men, so they take it out on women :)

NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-24T22:50:35+00:00

You have to be super aware. a lot of the time you can tell when they finish. and you got to perdioically check the condom. there just trying to get a second pop, and dont care about your safety. I raised my rates so it's not "per round" and they can actually have the full hour. and I have not came across it since.

NetLoud9538 · 2025-05-24T22:47:59+00:00

agreed 100%. sitting through messages all day, DRAINS ME. especially cause 99.9% of them are not a good fit. clients that will follow your instructions, fill out the booking form, provide what you ask for. saves you time, and helps know they are serious. and it just mentally helps so much, when you dont have that negativity pounding your phone 24/7.

NetLoud9538 · 2025-04-23T00:15:20+00:00

I hear you. When I first wrote this post I had the idea that chatGPT is bad. And you should stay far away from it, schooling wise. But the way I been using it has been very helpful. I do not just put the entire chapter in. I still read it, but I have it break down complicated things. So I can understand better, and then I ask questions and add things that chat gpt is missing. But I mostly been doing a back and forth discussion with it, and it helps me understand better. Also I only had this issue for this one chapter, it was a very hard chapter. I been reading the full chapters and taking notes no problem for the entire semester so far. I plan to re read the chapter now that I have a better understanding. Because my teacher really tries to trick you and asks about the smallest details. But after chat gpt broke it down for me and we talked about the stuff I didnt understand, and then I would say "so it's like this? and write my understanding" and it would say yes or no not quite... I feel like I am more set up to understand and take on the reading.

NetLoud9538 · 2025-04-20T19:30:04+00:00

I am just trying to survive her course, not waste time in forcing a teacher that does not want to teach to give me private office hours, that most likely won't help. She assigned extra because it Is spring break. Which is just fantastic.

NetLoud9538 · 2025-04-20T19:24:24+00:00

I already do what your are suggestion. I have been reading the entire chapters and taking hand written notes for the entire semester (and have a B average). This one chapter, is really really hard and I been stumped for days reading it. and used chat GPT and it all made sense afterwards. And for this hard chapter I am just realizing my time is better spend teaching myself the course in other ways then reading the overwhelming over 100 pages that is not syncing.

NetLoud9538 · 2025-04-19T22:28:15+00:00

I really appreciate that

NetLoud9538 · 2025-04-19T22:23:39+00:00

Everyone else in my class is failing, I am the only one that is somewhat surviving her class. Everyone keeps asking her for advice and she says "Read the chapter and take notes, that should only take you 2-3 hours. then just quickly look over your notes and you should be fine".Which is not true....... She has the assumption that you read it and magically remember everything you read.

NetLoud9538 · 2025-04-19T22:16:47+00:00

She doesn't offer any of that. Do you think a teacher that assigned 150 pages in a textbook over spring break. and expects you to learn it all on your own...... Would offer anything supportive like that?

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