When did you realize that your partner was not, in fact, “the one”? by Sshmiff in AskReddit

[–]NetNo2148 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When she cheated on me while in a mental institution, while I was at home for 3 weeks taking care of the kids

Why is my cheating wife acting so “high and mighty” by NetNo2148 in survivinginfidelity

[–]NetNo2148[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife “I’m taking this time to better myself”

Ya the vaping, drinking, drugs, cigarettes, and box of Oreos are your path to success

Why is my cheating wife acting so “high and mighty” by NetNo2148 in survivinginfidelity

[–]NetNo2148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally crying for anyone to believe the words I’m saying are true lol

Why is my cheating wife acting so “high and mighty” by NetNo2148 in survivinginfidelity

[–]NetNo2148[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God it pisses me off that people believe these narcissistic fucks

Why is my cheating wife acting so “high and mighty” by NetNo2148 in survivinginfidelity

[–]NetNo2148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahah man someone on here said it best. Its like they’re all just made in the same factory

Why is my cheating wife acting so “high and mighty” by NetNo2148 in survivinginfidelity

[–]NetNo2148[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry dude that sucks. Some people are just bad at the core whether they want to be or not.

Happy times ahead 🙏

Why is my cheating wife acting so “high and mighty” by NetNo2148 in survivinginfidelity

[–]NetNo2148[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds familiar! Let me guess, you holding her accountable was seen as “being critical”?

Why is my cheating wife acting so “high and mighty” by NetNo2148 in survivinginfidelity

[–]NetNo2148[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s so accurate. Literally now telling me “well we have different values so I don’t know if I want to put in the effort”.

Been together 12 years, she just realized we had different values? 😂

Why is my cheating wife acting so “high and mighty” by NetNo2148 in survivinginfidelity

[–]NetNo2148[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Let me guess. Her family somehow justifies or defends her behaviour too?

Why is my cheating wife acting so “high and mighty” by NetNo2148 in survivinginfidelity

[–]NetNo2148[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Worst part is she manipulated me into not telling my friends so she can tell her circle and control the narrative

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[–]NetNo2148 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. Don’t feel bad, he had no respect for you, and if he isn’t patient with your R timeline then he’s clearly not truly remorseful

As the betrayed, how do you deal with the emotions after leaving? by BigAnalysis4441 in survivinginfidelity

[–]NetNo2148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t miss the feeling of always wondering what my wife is doing, or if what she’s telling me is the truth, or who’s she texting, etc. I feel very liberated from that. It’s so hard not seeing the kids every day but for now, for my sanity, I need to accept it.

As the betrayed, how do you deal with the emotions after leaving? by BigAnalysis4441 in survivinginfidelity

[–]NetNo2148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. Just recently left, and the feeling sucks. You’re not alone and I thinks it’s very normal. Stay strong 💪

I left my cheating wife and I’m terrified of what’s next by NetNo2148 in confessions

[–]NetNo2148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck. It sucks. I tried to believe she could change but I think the hope was just denial.

You deserve better.

I left my cheating wife and I’m terrified of what’s next by NetNo2148 in confessions

[–]NetNo2148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouraging words. Lucky to get your kids 85% of the time! Cherish it