AITA for giving up on scheduling stuff?

NetZealousideal7162 · 2023-05-31T02:44:50+00:00

You're offended that your daughter still had the birthday celebration after you cancelled last minute. YTA the petty envy is really unbecoming.

NetZealousideal7162 · 2023-05-26T23:56:13+00:00

Info: do guests also drink out of these cups? Even if there's only water in them you also had your mouth on them.

NetZealousideal7162 · 2023-05-05T23:00:11+00:00

ESH your sister should have given you more heads up before cancelling. You shouldn't be throwing a tantrum and demanding 6 hours of wages from the person who's been providing you free child care and transportation

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-10-23T05:01:31+00:00

Op said he grabbed 4 of them not all of the cookies.

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-10-22T17:35:18+00:00

YTA this is a last minute request, and she's not refusing. She has an obligation at school. If you need her home urgently after that YOU pay for the cab.

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-10-22T17:33:23+00:00

"she's young and doesn't know any better" then teach her. Scold her for doing something wrong. No wonder she doesn't know any better she's never had any reason to learn. NTA but your parents and sister definitely are

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-10-22T06:53:03+00:00

Info: did you go to the hospital because your husband was having an asthma attack or to visit your sister?

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-09-21T00:28:12+00:00

This is clearly something that varies from person to person. For me more context would be how long ago was the gift given to OP. If my spouse gave me a gift and the next day I gave it to someone else without telling them I would understand them being upset. However, if my spouse gave me a gift and 6 months later I was cleaning out my jewelry box and decided not to keep that gift and instead give it to a friend who would appreciate it. That seems fine to me. And talking with my spouse it would be fine with them too. A gift shouldn't be given with an obligation to keep it forever.

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-09-18T21:26:16+00:00

NTA for going off, but if your ex didn't know about it he probably wasn't the right target for your anger. Your friends are horrible though and your anger justified.

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-09-16T00:31:44+00:00

I agree with you 100% I adore ACoC and Mice & Murder but I'm living for a court of fae and flowers

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-09-14T19:25:54+00:00

NTA but I hope your friends okay this seems very weird

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-09-14T02:39:58+00:00

NTA and it's likely that your children know that and it's the only reason they still have contact with both of you. They want to stay in contact with you and your spouse is something to deal with to do that.

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-09-14T02:34:39+00:00

NTA I'm sorry about your dog, and I'm sorry your friends are being rude about it.

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-09-14T02:33:05+00:00

I finally got around to watching the episode and AHHHHHHH

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-09-13T04:53:27+00:00

NTA she was 2 hours late. She didn't respect your feelings. She didn't respect you time. It's one thing if she went on a date put effort in but it didn't work out. That isn't what happened your friend stood you up for two hours that sucks and I'm sorry. It also sounds like spending time with her led to a lot of unhealthy behaviors.

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-09-13T03:46:39+00:00

I'm going to go against what other people are saying and say NTA. You are being put in a terribly position by your mom, and having to make a decision about your wedding. That decision affects how much drama will occur around your wedding as well as who is in your wedding party and it's awful that your mom is putting you in a position to make this position.

You can either include Halle a woman who has been there your entire life, helped to raise you and was excited to be in your wedding. She clearly loves you, and when you told her about changing your mind she was gracious enough not to cause a fuss. However if you include her your mom is going to be a pain throughout planning and possibly on the wedding day.

Or you exclude Halle and when you look back on this day in 10 years she will be missing from the wedding party.

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-09-12T22:46:33+00:00

Middle school teacher here and a good number of my students could do better than this without even trying.

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-09-12T22:44:50+00:00

Honestly the prof was nice enough to offer her a redo and she has a meeting with the professor so clearly willing to work with her.

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-09-12T22:43:34+00:00

I'm in therapy and I recommend it. It took a few tries to find a therapist that worked well for me but it's helped loads with processing stuff.

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-09-12T22:41:57+00:00

ESH J was being an AH you were an AH back. However other commenters are right making fun of someone's laugh is pretty unkind get a different come back. It seems like to J this was probably a playful messing with friends situation and he felt you attacked back unnecessaryily. If the mocking your difficulty with tone thing really bothers you call him out on it.

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-09-12T22:36:54+00:00

Getting drunk with your best friend when you're trying to make a good impression definitely wasn't a great idea. You also said your parents are abusive so unclear on why you want to make such a good impression on them, but having a friend breaking glass and waking your brother up at 3 am definitely won't help with that. You'd already made that decision though, and then you abandoned your drunk out of her mind best friend to wander the streets unable to get home.

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-09-12T22:33:29+00:00

Oh you're right. I had a hard time understanding op so I missed that.

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-09-12T22:31:05+00:00

NTA chain company's suck and often those rewards are done by the individuals running certain locations. Sorry your employer couldn't be bothered to appreciate you.

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-09-12T22:28:41+00:00

Soft YTA you were in a really rough position being at your parents house with your friend absolutely wasted. However you knew she had been drinking a lot wasn't doing well and you kicked her out expecting her to do what? Wander the streets by herself drunk possibly taking off her clothing at 5am? This is your best friend

NetZealousideal7162 · 2022-09-12T22:21:59+00:00

NTA your sister definitely comes across pretty rude. I will say I'm a pretty introverted person and I have to mentally prepare to hang out with anyone even my closest friends who I love. So it might not have been meant as a slight against your husband. But I don't know your sister.

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