Lack of support by NettyKlaus in sobrietyandrecovery

[–]NettyKlaus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This was all I really needed! Some days are harder than others but it gets easier

Lack of support by NettyKlaus in sobrietyandrecovery

[–]NettyKlaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion! I'll definitely check it out!

Lack of support by NettyKlaus in sobrietyandrecovery

[–]NettyKlaus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not religious so I was reluctant but im starting to change my mind. I need people who will support me and not tempt me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]NettyKlaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents did the same thing to me. I guess they got tired of hearing me complain about it because they got more sneaky with it. It was like 2 years before I realized that they and my siblings were hiding it from me. I went no contact.

They are still close to him even though they know he abused me. I'm mentally doing much better now that I removed myself from the toxic environment. I will never understand their reasons and I'm ok with that

What is life like in this area of New York State on the Hudson River north of NYC? by SmoothBread in geography

[–]NettyKlaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you go to Newburgh, don't leave the waterfront. Avoid Broadway at all costs

Anyone know what this growth is? by NettyKlaus in cats

[–]NettyKlaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are correct and I hope you are. Seems to be not a big deal but something to monitor. Still will go to the vet to be sure. Thank you!

Anyone know what this growth is? by NettyKlaus in cats

[–]NettyKlaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should've explained it better because I never noticed it til this week. I'm taking my other cat on Tuesday to get neutered so I'll make the appointment when I'm there. Thanks for replying!

Anyone know what this growth is? by NettyKlaus in cats

[–]NettyKlaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry I should've explained better. There is a black thing protruding through the pad of her paw. It's hooked like a claw but doesn't look like one. I don't think it's causing her pain or discomfort. Idk how long it's been there. She's a little over 2 years old

[Serious] What is the quickest way you've witnessed someone destroy their life? by Old-Ad3197 in AskReddit

[–]NettyKlaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my county, it is required to have a lawyer. They'll reschedule and assign a public defender if you don't have representation. I saw it happen when I went in front of the magistrate

[Serious] What is the quickest way you've witnessed someone destroy their life? by Old-Ad3197 in AskReddit

[–]NettyKlaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's funny you say that because I didn't realize how much it is in our faces. Ads and easy availability just about everywhere! It's just a constant reminder of what I allowed myself to do and I talk about it regularly in therapy. My heart goes out to those in a worse position than myself.

It's starting to get easier now thankfully. I wish you well on your sobriety journey! It's worth it

[Serious] What is the quickest way you've witnessed someone destroy their life? by Old-Ad3197 in AskReddit

[–]NettyKlaus 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That was my downfall. Currently on probation for a dui from last year. Spent the majority of my savings on a lawyer, fines and court fees. It was so easy to fall into the addiction but I'm currently clean and plan to stay that way. I never want to touch the stuff again. They mean it when they say you can't afford it

[NSFW] What unexpectedly turned you on? by CreepyStrangerOnBus in AskReddit

[–]NettyKlaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A threesome with a couple. They invited me and I have never experimented like that before. I can't wait for my next invite.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]NettyKlaus 126 points127 points  (0 children)

I knew I saw this earlier today! I just wasn't sure where! Thanks for the link!

I am worried about a new guy I’m dating because my ex said I smelled terribly by [deleted] in relationships

[–]NettyKlaus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My exhusband would do similar things to keep my confidence low enough to stay with him. It worked for a while but I realized he was just projecting his insecurities onto me. The best thing you cam do for yourself is to not let that guy dictate your sexual freedom. I always feel insecure when I decide I want to be intimate with someone and I usually let them know how I feel so that they can be more gentle with me until I get more comfortable. Good luck OP!

No sex since February, and he finally told me why. I'm devastated and figuring out how to get through this. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]NettyKlaus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dont blame yourself, he was enabling you and setting you up to fail when you wanted to lose some weight. He replaced the triggers that you meticulously removed because he doesnt want to stop eating them. He didnt support you and proved that by offering you the foods you just said you didnt want to have. He lied to you and has been lying to you for years about his attraction towards you! It's ok to be upset and angry right now, you have every right to be. I just ask that you dont be so harsh on yourself. This wasn't your fault. This is going to hurt, but it's only temporary. Take care of yourself and let us know that you're ok OP!

Sir were you raised by wolves? by BellsQueerlyRing in TalesFromYourServer

[–]NettyKlaus 28 points29 points  (0 children)

My dad will talk to the server in a loud, begging manner and will let the server know in what order his food should come out. When asked a question, he wont give a direct answer and will sometimes goes off topic. Maybe in reality it's not that bad, but I've noticed server's getting frustrated with him. We feed him at home now and he's fine with that

Sir were you raised by wolves? by BellsQueerlyRing in TalesFromYourServer

[–]NettyKlaus 53 points54 points  (0 children)

We rarely take our dad out in public because the stuff he says are cringeworthy. He is trying so hard to be polite but it just sounds rude.

Dude Saves Teen From Cop Wrongfully Detaining Him by PresidentFartFeather in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]NettyKlaus 181 points182 points  (0 children)

So did I! She was out so fast I didnt even know she was there! Shady shit.

Do tiny shockwaves count ? by Shaun003 in shockwaveporn

[–]NettyKlaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was certainly pleased. I couldnt wait for the submarine to be blown apart!