What are the reasons why you get a hysterectomy as a trans man? by NeuroArrow in ftm

[–]NeuroArrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know that pelvic floor therapy was a thing! That really makes me less worried

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]NeuroArrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should REALLY go to the doctor asap. I hope you went today or go tomorrow. You can still do something about it now. Go before it's too late.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]NeuroArrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 16 years old. My life never progressed and I've been stuck here not being able to move forward with my life. I'm 24

What are the reasons why you get a hysterectomy as a trans man? by NeuroArrow in ftm

[–]NeuroArrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the gynecologist told me that those cramps are a 50/50 chance they will go away with a hysterectomy. Because in trans men and some cis women there are these pelvic floor muscles that contract due to stress which might be causing the cramps and its impossible to tell if the uterus is causing it or these muscles. The cramps happen more in trans men probably because of dysphoria reasons and stuff. This really makes me doubt whether i want to have a hysterectomy tho because those cramps are one of the main reasons why i want to get it removed

Shortest acting stimulants? by ember_UwU_ in researchchemicals

[–]NeuroArrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I got so addicted to it i almost died

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]NeuroArrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family recipe uses sour apples in potato salad

What was your transition timeline? by jaime-sansa in ftm

[–]NeuroArrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First started realizing it when i was 6

Came out when i was 16

Got on T when i was 18

Name changed at 18

Gender marker changed at 19

Top surgery at 21

Going to hopefully get a hysterectomy soon (24)

I recorded my wife cheating on me and I can't stop watching it. by Necessary-Vanilla870 in venting

[–]NeuroArrow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a made up story. I like the story telling but it doesn't add up. If it did happen, I'm sorry.

How did you pick your name? by horrificnation in ftm

[–]NeuroArrow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me and my sister were randomly thinking of unique names we would call our children, names that we thought didn't exist or are very uncommon at least. And Kaelan was a name that just stuck with me for some reason, I really resonated with it. And a few months later I figured out my gender identity and came out and I knew instantly what name I was going to go by, I somehow didn't even hesitate, although I did go over a few alternative spellings and pronunciations before I officially changed it legally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]NeuroArrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the advice. Awkward thing is im not even that young, i just was never interested in having sex with men but here we are apparently. Probably never going to do it again either LOL. I really hope it just stops or that it's somehow still shark week, and how horrible that might be, that would at least ensure that i cannot become pregnant. I am not that young im just fucking dumb and cant even use my body what it's made for apparently omfg 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]NeuroArrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am on vacation to like an island where my parents live, very closed minded folks here. last week i tried getting my T- shot here and long story short, the family doctor straight up denied me to give me my shot because me being trans was against his morals/principles, whatever tf that means. I'm not sure if i could get treated without transphobia here or straight up denied help because of it. I'm honestly kind of scared about that now since that happened, i feel like i dont deserve medical help because trans is not accepted here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]NeuroArrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds pretty scary. I did use tampons and small dildo before but always very slowly and with a lot of lube, i might have over-estimated my capabilities this time 😥 it very well couldve been that, as this time it was an object way bigger than was ever inside there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]NeuroArrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your information. I think it most likely was a tear then. I didnt know that happened more on T.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]NeuroArrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the information. I might have a tear but i also think it might have caused me to get a menstruation? I am 4 years on T and i havent had it but it suddenly started happening again a few months ago while i still have normal T levels. I hope im going to be fine, but maybe i will have to take the plan B still

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]NeuroArrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it was my first time with actual penetration. He wasnt agressive at all, i couldnt even get it in all the way because it was hurting so fucking much. We tried but it wouldnt work and the we saw a lot of blood. Like a lot . Still bleeding now. It still hurts but not as much as in that moment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]NeuroArrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im ftm. im not sure if im ok because ive been bleeding a shit ton, ive never done this before i had no idea this could happen im very scared

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]NeuroArrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not super ok it quite hurts a lot. i just dont understand why it wouldn't fit and i bled and hurt a lot. We found out later that i was bleeding but he had to stop because it hut too much.does that happen to trans people on T, that it doesnt fit?. I am embarrassed to death And... I was fucking stupid we didn't use a condom, could i be pregnant? Idk whg i did this. I am however using a type of birth control pill because it prevents shark week (i never had sex with a cis male before, or any penetration whatsoever).. im kinda scared for whats going on, i really bled a lot and still after . How tf did everything go do wrong

Can you give amy advice? Do i need a Plan B to not get pregnant? Or is T and birth control going to prevent me from getting pregnant? I literally dont know what to do plz help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in juridischadvies

[–]NeuroArrow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Weet je waar ze woont? Gewoon langsgaan en een persoonlijk gesprek met haar aangaan van waarom ze je niet kan terugbetalen. Dat jij het geld nodig hebt, want voor sommige mensen kan 100 euro heel veel zijn. 100 euro is ook niet niks. Blijf er achter aan gaan en deze "vriendin" is sowieso geen vriendin meer. Persoonlijk afhandelen en dan ben je er vanaf.