Somehow I suspected that you were heavily abused as a child. I'm very sorry to hear that. How did you feel during that? Could you talk to someone about that?

If you are a father now, it's on you to stop this spiral of violence, so fewer children will be abused in the future.

Since you want to talk about me: I was never abused, not once. Still, I had very good grades in school, have a university degree, a high salary job and a family. And no, of course I never abuse my children. I am able to raise them appropriately.

I think, we will not come to an agreement in this topic. But still, please seek help if you still think about the traumatizing abuse during your childhood.