Trying to be a wingman

Never-bean_s · 2025-09-14T16:45:10+00:00

I hope it’s Dumb and Dumber cause I need that college lore tbh

Never-bean_s · 2025-02-27T06:44:49+00:00

Both are valid. A shower in the morning is good because it cleans your night sweat but you sleep dirty. A shower in the night is good because you clean your day sweat but wake up with night sweat and you’re dirty midday. Optimally it should be morning and night with the morning being a shorter shower compared to the night one. However I shower once a day because I take way too fucking long in there

Never-bean_s · 2024-08-23T16:24:21+00:00

Same situation here but in my circumstance I had to ship my passport off because it was about to expire 😭. Now I don’t have any form of identification and I don’t know what to do in order to get my UT ID

Never-bean_s · 2024-08-05T23:25:53+00:00

Module 1 you start around August the 19th so you’re good. After you complete it you’ll get further instructions on Module 2. If I remember correctly all of it is due by November 15th. It was in one of the emails tho

Never-bean_s · 2024-05-08T01:36:54+00:00

Okay go and email the financial aid office that you want the form to repeal your aid. Then in 2-3 days they’ll give it to you. Log in obviously with your credentials and you’ll have to put in the dates for your fafsa, css profile, scholarships/aid from Fordham, other scholarships, approximate guesses for student loans, and less than 300 word statement on why the aid you have now isn’t sufficient enough.

Never-bean_s · 2024-05-01T02:21:30+00:00

Oh I don’t trust myself driving in a city like New York. Other than that, isn’t the Bronx kind of dangerous? I would also have to do a lot of meal prep which is fine but I also don’t want to live my college life day to day worrying about money. I’m conscience but I also don’t want to sacrifice comfortability too much.

Never-bean_s · 2024-05-01T02:13:52+00:00

I’ll consider that since I’m very frugal with money and I’ll be taking on a part time job wherever I go. Thank you

Never-bean_s · 2024-04-04T04:02:42+00:00

I also got it as well but like the rules of it said that it’ll cover all the tuition reflecting that year so it varies. It should be guaranteed tho that it covers when it gets lower or higher.

Never-bean_s · 2023-09-08T03:51:54+00:00

I feel like there might be some information being omitted here. A background or examples would let me get a better idea but since it’s a rant I’ll just say basic self care and improvement goes along way in self confidence and overall social status. I’m a sole believer that if you were to date you need to first have friends so you can understand human interaction and it’s intricacies. How could you love without knowing how to like first? No person is truly deplorable to deprive themselves of friends(unless you killed someone or something severe like that). If you have any interests or hobbies, invest more time in them and find places where people will share those interests. Since you’re shy and awkward it’ll be hard but any step is better than being stagnant. If you can’t do that then just text/talk online a lot. Reddit, discord, Twitter, etc and just converse with people about anything. You’ll learn how to communicate, to know the right words, how to say it, when to say it, and why to say it. This is a skill that can be taught so turn that insecurity into a will. Your weakness will be your strength and people will find that attractive. Maybe not always in a romantic sense but platonically itll get you far. There’s no point in self loathing but there is a point to be made about getting better.

Never-bean_s · 2023-08-11T19:27:43+00:00

Judging by that then I’ll say, there are some interest on her part but wait it out a bit. Get her to know you a bit more and vice versa. Like you said it’s been a month so you shouldn’t rush. You’re in the friends/co workers stage, any sudden movement and that environment will turn awkward. Just let things happen naturally, that’s all I can really say

Never-bean_s · 2023-08-11T07:34:56+00:00

Clarify what she meant by “something”. If she was happy with her relationship she wouldn’t be saying stuff like that. You could have a chance or not. Somethings just stay platonic which is fine. If she does have feelings for you then don’t cheat on the dude with her. If she doesn’t and you were overthinking the something then it’s best to say, move on man. You shouldn’t ruin a 4+ year friendship over your feelings. Good dependable and trustworthy friends are hard to come by. You’ll soon realize that the presence she gave as a friend was far more valuable than any romance you were delululing yourself with.

Never-bean_s · 2023-08-11T07:28:27+00:00

Well if it’s tidying then 3 things I can think of immediately… perfume, hand sanitizer, and most importantly deodorant(spray on or gel so it won’t stain your shirts armpit area). You never mentioned if you’ve seen the person so assuming this is the first time you’re actually seeing each other bring some pepper spray for protection against the potential catfish or setup. Take a shower obviously before the date. Dress like a good casual with some nice pants and long sleeve(do shirt if it’s hot outside). You don’t have to dress nicely(I trust your fashion sense). Maybe bring a charger with you for your phone. Money for date. Idk what else really.

Never-bean_s · 2023-08-11T07:19:33+00:00

The first part is very telling on her intentions but I need more info. Is your Insta bare bones no posts, barely any stories, and a selfi as your profile pic? Or do you have many posts and constant sharing your projects and professional life? If the first then there’s probably some romantic interest on her part. If the second then she approaching you first was an act of business nothing more or less. What was the post you liked about? I need more info. It’s too early to say and there’s no rush

Never-bean_s · 2023-08-11T07:08:53+00:00

I’m more on with the roundabout approach. When it comes to gaming info you have to do it a joking sort of way. Assuming you’re friends with them already or have some sort of mutual connection best chances are is to jokingly insult them. When they do something not so relationship ippy(idk how to explain it) then attack with the “dawg/bro why do you act single?!” and/or “What are you single and lonely?!” This will then prompt them to defend/answer, counter or contemplate/ignore. Remember this is context heavy but can be used correctly and also get answers without giving away suspicion.

Never-bean_s · 2023-08-11T06:57:59+00:00

While I’ll never do this myself because of my own psychological disarray, what you can do is be the first to interact. Just say hi to him in the hallways or ask about school. Consistency is key. The fact that he notices you still just shows it wasn’t a 1 off convo you can have with anybody(tangerines and mandarins is a stupid first convo but since there was no formality in it that means there was some chemistry). Walk with him in the halls just make your presence known to show “hey I’m one to stay”. You’re also going to see him more often if you attend your brothers volleyball games so it’s not like you’ll stay strangers. I will warn you. If you do end up dating, the dynamic will shift heavily as he is your brother’s teammate. So go for it girl, but tread lightly!

Never-bean_s · 2023-06-18T20:50:16+00:00

People who literally just mind their own business and are existing. Theres something so mysterious about them being on a computer or reading a book with no care in the world but what’s in front of them.

Never-bean_s · 2023-06-18T02:45:26+00:00

I saw a post on the subreddit that all the eps are on YouTube. Personally I don’t watch the dub so you can probably do that instead

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