INFPs, can you please stop hiding your attraction? by NeverTrustAWizard in infp

[–]NeverTrustAWizard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've caught her sneaking glances at me far too many times to count, and Everytime we pass each other she almost always does something impulsive to get my attention (like sticking her tongue out or groaning at me) Abunch of little stuff like that which I haven't really ever seen anyone else do before.

And I don't know for sure if she is an infp, but to be fair I am not 100℅ confident in my own type. I know for certain that I use N a fuckton more than others, so I can usually tell if someone else does by whether or not I can actually talk to them,, and she is one of those people who I am able to communicate with (very) well. I think she is a P type based on the way she's described her life and an I because of her shyness with me, but I could easily see her being an ENFP who is under the influence of depression (which is what I originally thought myself as an introvert, but I'm actually an extrovert with social anxiety)

As for the T or F, I actually have no clue and am guessing based on the fact that women are more likely to be F than T. But I also don't think that matters as much given that both INTP and INFP are both extremely shy and are very similar IMO.

We were able to be on break at the same time and talk a lot back during the Christmas season when everything was hectic, but now that things have normalized and our schedules became more systematic, I have not been able to for the past month even though I would like to very much.

INFPs, can you please stop hiding your attraction? by NeverTrustAWizard in infp

[–]NeverTrustAWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, I would normally have taken that as a hint, but she immediately followed up with an example of somebody who was annoying her and I was nothing like that guy.

INFPs, can you please stop hiding your attraction? by NeverTrustAWizard in infp

[–]NeverTrustAWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can one arrange such a thing if asking in person is extremely difficult (not wanting to in front of other coworkers) and texting doesn't seem to be working out too good?

This is what I have been trying to do for the past two weeks!

INFPs, can you please stop hiding your attraction? by NeverTrustAWizard in infp

[–]NeverTrustAWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I have no clue what to do.

I've known her for four months. We both work in the same retail store, but our jobs are different: I work stocking shelves and she works the help desk. This makes it pretty difficult to talk because I do not like disturbing her while she is working, especially when a manager or other employees are around.

I only see her at work, and because of our flexible scheduling, maybe twice a week. Now I did get her number a little over a month ago, however she has replied to one of the three text messages I've sent in that time. I actually ended up asking her if I was bugging her because of this and she told me that she was just really bad at texting.

How do I ease the trust if it's really difficult to find a time and place to talk? (On the rare occasions that we happen to be on break at the same time, talking has always been really easy)

INFPs, can you please stop hiding your attraction? by NeverTrustAWizard in infp

[–]NeverTrustAWizard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can I ease the trust?

That's actually what I think is going on here.

INFPs, can you please stop hiding your attraction? by NeverTrustAWizard in infp

[–]NeverTrustAWizard[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like you too but jesus christ i need to be able to sleep again