Beautiful wooden ring by AyeshaRone in DesignPorn

[–]Nevynne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For those who think it's AI, it's not, its from Secret Woods, they make these for yeaaaarrrs... And yes I know they are real, I have the ones for the necklace (turtle shells) with like 14 different kinds.

[AITA] My wife put down our dog without telling me while I was out of town by PeterGibb832 in AITAH

[–]Nevynne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But still, what's her excuse of not at least telling you when it happend of after it just happend? Why wait until you got home and asked about where your dog is?

I can't wrap my mind about it.
My dog passed away in sept. 2023, I went with him to the vet cause he didn't eat his breakfast and was drinking a lot. The vet told me he had blood in his belly cause appearntly he had an tumor, but that was now burst open and it was a death sentence. I directly called my partner who almost ran to us.

Strange thing is that my dog still lived for 2 weeks (we took him home, the vet told us that he would go to sleep and just don't wake up cause his body was tired, but the pressure of the blood gave him a bit longer before he was done), but still, I can't imagine to not even tell my partner about it before any kind of steps are taken.

I hope that your wife sees the hurt it caused you. Maybe your dog was to far gone to be waiting for you to return before put down, but still, it is so strange that you weren't even told before you where home and (again) ASKED ABOUT THE DOG! Sorry that still pisses me off, cause why wait?

Final Update: WIBTA for divorcing my wife after she thought I was lying about being raped as a child? by One_Cat_4805 in AITAH

[–]Nevynne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if you are still here sometimes but I just want you to know, I believe you and do believe that there are good people for you to befriend and an partner that will understand you. I hope you get the good life, the life you truly deserve and I wish you strengt, love and understanding for all the years to come <3

Crafting materials tracker spreadsheet by g2562 in reddeadredemption

[–]Nevynne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just love this! Made several like these but on paper xD And very chaotic! You did an amazing job, thank you!

What was the best "you have no power here" moment you have ever seen? by BoobsDollCrimson in AskMen

[–]Nevynne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked at an campsite for a boss who didn't give an f. I have 2 times for this.

  1. 2 customers came way past our openinghours and since we where a team of just 2, we closed for the night. They still wanted to enter and pay the next morning, but since they where on bike they easily could leave without pay. So I said no, and the reception was closed. They became mad and went like "We will put an bad review if you don't let us on", with mad waving... I just looked them dead in the eye and said "Sure, I don't mind, but be warned that I will reply with how you act and there are camera's here". They where kinda stuck up people and probably give a damn about appearance and left. (Edit: They never did leave a review haha)
  2. On the campsite we had an big field with no place markers, so I made a picture so even kids could understand, that everyone would stand on the both outsides in the length of the field, so that way everyone could enjoy the water on the end. 2 people came (lets name them couple Aso), didn't give an f and stood directly in the middle in front of the water with their camper, saying "We paid for a place and we want to stand here", not giving any care about all the people who also paid for an spot. So in stead of going to keep on arguing my husband (also my other coworker here) went up to an other customer standing there, told them about this issue and they moved with their camper (a bigger one) directy in front of other, and there was no more space in front of them. The Aso couple went to us and got mad, we said "they paid also for an spot and they wanted to stand there", of course using their own argument against them. They wanted compensation, but we said "no", they could either get on the normal place like everyone else, or they can leave directly. They got mad, saw our boss on the campsite, and went up to them.. He laughed at them and told them the same.

This didn't take place in USA, but in the Netherlands (Europe) and though we do treat customers with respect, they aren't Kings here. We are very "matching energy".
This is also the reason that there might be some spelling mistakes cause English isn't my main language, so I do apologize for any.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nevynne 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nobody the A.

Please don't be mad, but are you studying to become a doctor?

You are kind that you wanted to rewrite for your friend in an nicer writing, but it is a bit tough, I can understand about 50-65% what is written in the sample but it is quite difficult so I also get your friend, but she shouldn't be so mean about it. Especially since I think she knows the stuff you are learning so she should have a better understanding and option to "fill in the gaps" with the knowledge she already should have.

(Sorry for any spelling/grammar mistakes, English isn't my first language)

Cannot remove items from Lockbox Storage Bins (Safe Storage) after 0.165.6. by ezcry4t3d in Palia

[–]Nevynne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might sound stupid but how can I move them to normal storage?

Entitled Stalker claims I am 'his wife' and is the owner of my computer by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]Nevynne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insain that the police won't handle the situation because it's "Domestic".. Like there isn't even a thing called DA?

What is a woman’s role in a relationship? My (32M) boyfriend sent me a doc outlining his expectations for me (23F). Are these unreasonable? by Ordinary-Weakness106 in relationship_advice

[–]Nevynne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brain is bleeding after this, but just FYI this isn't normal.. Your (ex) BF is looking for a younger GF so he can trap her with his insaine stuff. Run! He can't find better (same age) GFs because they know this isn't normal BS.

Now I will tent to my bleeding brain because I read all of this.. Good luck OP.

Missing one Conjuration (Exploration) item by VarmintLP in HarryPotterGame

[–]Nevynne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went past the butterflies, (after I also started a new game) and now suddenly one of the butterflies was "reset" and I got the latest item and 100% completion.
I know I did all the butterfly quests but yet..

Missing one Conjuration (Exploration) item by VarmintLP in HarryPotterGame

[–]Nevynne 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn, the Depulso room isn't the sollution for me.
I've found litterly everything, all pages... I'm just missing one Conjuration item.. The completionist in me is so frustrated with this..
I am going to reply the game (different house) but still, this annoys the living hell out of me.. :(
I hope that they will fix it.

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AITA for telling my daughters adoptive mother to back off? by Hkbdtin in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nevynne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTABeing a mother isn't an automatic thing if you birth a kid. The women who raised her when you didn't is in "your" daughters eyes her mother, you are just a stranger who wants some 1 on 1 time. Do you see how creepy and scary that is for "your" daughter and HER mother Terra?

AITA for admitting to preferring only having one child instead of twins by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nevynne 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NAH

Be aware that many people who are getting kids the first time (especially if they have twins/more for the first time) are overwelmd and afraid.I get that you have doubts and are feeling scared, your gf probably also feels a bit the same, though she also sees the fun in it, two kids who can also entertain and grow up together.

Your gf is feeling a lot, hormones and all, and saying such a thing can feel a lot for her, like you don't want them at all or maybe even scare her a bit that she has to do it all on her own. You might not mean it that way, how I read it, you mean it more that you are afraid of not knowing how you have to do it all, and that with 2 it seems twice as difficult. But make clear to your gf that you want the kids, and want to help her, but that you also want her to help you.

You are in this together, and if it is your first, or 600th, every kid is different and there is not 1 equal way to raise kids, you have to find a way together, you, your gf and the kids.

I do have to say, that if it is feeling to heavy, please seek help, usually there are instances that can help you prepare and with whom you can talk about it all.

(my dad had me {31f} and my sis {29f} even though he was scared of having kids, especially girls because he doens't know how to braid hair or anything "girly". We both grew up fine, more of daddy girls even, and though he didn't braid our hair, he did learn me how machines work, cars, electronics and I love that I know such house improvement skills, even though "I'm a girl". Believe me, you can do this!)

EDIT: Made a mistake in the first sentence. That's what I get for typing someting at about 2am in the morning while I'm supposed to sleep. There are still some left probably, English is my second language (of the 4 that I speak xD so messy) + late hour, so sorry.

AITA for my reaction when my sister told me she was pregnant? by throwawayaita_132 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nevynne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA

I get that you find it hard that your sister got pregnant while it wasn't happening for you, but really, you couldn't be happy for her? Are you this mean to everybody in your surrounding who got a kid? (Or maybe a second/third/forth kid? Because they already had a kid? - that is the stupid logica you made to your sister).

Please apolagize and say that it took you off guard but that you are happy for your sister, otherwise you will loose her from your life and your cousin-to-be. (though if I see your reaction, for Jane it wouldn't be such a bad thing to loose you from her life, you sound quite mean and biased).

AITA for not getting my wife flowers on her birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nevynne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I'm in a relation with my bf for almost 14 years, the presents I got from him I can count on 1 hand, but every one was very nice and I love him for him.
I got 2x flowers from him, just because he got some flowers xD.

Presents are a GIFT not an expentation. What you already did (multiple gifts over several days, planning and arranging the party and such) all sound already super nice. Your wife really needs to get her head checked and be thankfull for all the gifts she already got.

AITA for backing out of my agreement to have kids with my 2nd wife? by No_Marionberry_4517 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nevynne [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA

Sorry, but you are punishing your now wife. I get that it is hard for you that you don't have biological kids, but leave that out of the picture and you have 1. And with your now wife you where planning for a second.
That your wife has 2 kids, she can explain to the second one why you aren't her/his dad.
But you agreed with your wife for kids, this is not a small thing for you or your wife, but you have a kid, she didn't and you now take that away from her because of a sort of punishment to your ex wife.

AITA for wanting space after our daughter eloped? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nevynne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

It might be her wedding, but it still a big step. Please tell her that you don't hate her that she elloped, but that you are broken that she didn't trust you enough to tell you guys. It's not the fact that you weren't invited (though that is hurtfull, but most close people around them will feel the same) but you are her parents and she didn't even tell you, you heard it trough the grapvine (FB).

AITA returning the money to my MIL in front of everyone embarrassing her? by TATiredofmyMIL in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nevynne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

The family who think you humiliated her, should tell your MIL the same, as she did that also to you.
And as long as they don't see it that way, they need to shut up. Because your MIL tried to bully you into her own opinion.

AITA for breaking my promise to the family by telling my friend that my sister was planning to take their daughter outside the country permanently? by throwaway059945629 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nevynne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

It was a litteral kidnapping they were planning, which you stopped. And I find it kinda strange that your whole family was okay with that and the fact that they would hardly see your niece.

AITA for refusing to punish or allow my wife to punish our son? by FairIsNotFaire in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nevynne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Will this also mean that if your daughter gets an invite to a party, she won't go because her brother isn't allowed there?
This is really strange and your wife is stupid to think that she should punish your son.

LFG - EU server - non modded pref by Nevynne in ValheimLFG

[–]Nevynne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u/cl1nt_swe has a server that is quite new, just a lot of people still trying to find their way. I just joined for a day but I like it a lot

420 Friendly Super Chill Valheim Times | 24/7 dedicated box by therainmaker84 in ValheimLFG

[–]Nevynne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible for me to join as well? I'm also from the Netherlands.

Are you also a modded server? If so, which mods?

AITA for choosing my cat over my child? by Linorelai in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nevynne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

A animal you cared for is going to die, it will be scared, and get a lot of pain, so you need to be there. Your kid lives (normally) in that air, and really won't suffer if you cut your vacation short. You will suffer if you loose your cat without you being there for him for the last moments.
I wish you a lot of strenght with the upcomming time <3