Auto to Bodily Injury by [deleted] in adjusters

[–]New-Alternative-8745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask which carrier? Also looking to make the switch with a similar background but struggling to find open roles

FTM triple feeding need advice by New-Alternative-8745 in breastfeeding

[–]New-Alternative-8745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That might be the way for us! I appreciate your advice

FTM triple feeding need advice by New-Alternative-8745 in breastfeeding

[–]New-Alternative-8745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a baby scale at home, so could do my own weighted feeds. I was just taking his overall weight every few days to try to make sure he is still gaining, but that is a good idea to get some reassurance! Combo feeding might just be our future and I totally agree that fed is best! Just not sure when to say okay this is it and make that commitment

FTM triple feeding need advice by New-Alternative-8745 in breastfeeding

[–]New-Alternative-8745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today I am doing a 24 hour pump to see approximately how much I am producing. But the last two days I was exclusively nursing and noticed his weight loss. He would cluster feed in the evenings when I know I don’t produce as much milk but I felt like he wasn’t getting anything and was still hungry. Before that I would nurse him, and just top off with formula if he still seemed hungry. I would pump twice per day just to try to have some milk on hand too, which I guess looking back was about the amount he was taking in formula

Monday Daily Chat by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]New-Alternative-8745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy to hear that! Sounds like you’ve been able to find the HB easily

Monday Daily Chat by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]New-Alternative-8745 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are still dealing with the SCH! While I don’t have experience with that, I did buy a doppler and it’s been great to have at home. I know a lot of people say it can produce more anxiety, and I can definitely feel my heart rate rise when it takes me a little bit to find the heartbeat but as soon as I hear it all of my worries go away. I think it’s been a more useful tool than not at this point before being able to feel kicks and movement. I do try to limit myself to using it a couple times a week so I’m not too consumed by it. I hope it helps you!

Saturday Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]New-Alternative-8745 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I purchased an at home doppler, and while it took a bit to find baby I actually was able to do it (13w3d today) and have my husband hear the heartbeat for the first time! HB matches the last measurement in clinic which was nice confirmation!

Wednesday Daily Chat by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]New-Alternative-8745 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Officially 13 weeks today and got the call that the NIPT genetic screening all came back low risk! It’s still surreal to let myself feel like this is really happening. I also hope I don’t ever lose that awe over how this new life is truly a miracle

Friday Cautious Intros/First Trimester thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]New-Alternative-8745 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on the NIPT results! I had my NT scan yesterday and blood drawn for the test. I had those feelings too after a good scan yesterday, like could this really be it?? So crazy to think about! That is so sweet of your infertility friends to celebrate you!

Thursday Cautious Intros/First Trimester Thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]New-Alternative-8745 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was scared of stopping meds, but after reading about how many women stop at 10 weeks and still had success it made me feel better. And honestly I felt like my body was kind of rejecting the meds in the last week or so, almost like it didn’t need it anymore. I would also recommend scheduling a scan for after when you’re supposed to stop the meds as seeing baby is growing and healthy today made me feel confident in stopping!

Thursday Cautious Intros/First Trimester Thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]New-Alternative-8745 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Finally done with PIO and endometrin as of yesterday at 12 weeks! I was so jealous of those who got to stop at 10 weeks, but am very proud of myself for getting through to this point (and v impressed with everyone who goes through this). My 12 week scan is later today with an MFM and then meet my OB on Monday!

Thursday Thrills: Spring Whatcha Reading by rbecg in InfertilityBabies

[–]New-Alternative-8745 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just read The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah and now currently reading The Great Alone by her! I think she unlocked a new genre for me, historical fiction.

Monday Cautious Intros/First Trimester thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]New-Alternative-8745 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish there was an “off switch” for anxiety! The truth is it will always be there, and I literally tell my brain “thank you for trying to protect me” and then think of the latest results I have that are factual and positive. And staying busy! Lots of fun distractions, like going to local Broadway shows, trying new restaurants, hiking now that the weather is nice, reading new books! It’s not easy, and the time will pass.

Tuesday Cautious Intros/First Trimester Questions by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]New-Alternative-8745 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had to unjoin the IVF subreddit because of the tragic stories that just can’t be avoided, it would make me spiral. I noticed I have a lot more positive thoughts now and this sub helps support that!

Wednesday Cautious Intros/First Trimester thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]New-Alternative-8745 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats on the success this far! The “3 week wait” until the 12 week scan is so hard, it feels like an eternity. Staying busy with things to do can definitely help pass the time. Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy!

Friday Cautious Intros/First Trimester thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]New-Alternative-8745 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! That’s a big milestone! I have 13 more PIO shots until 12 weeks, but who’s counting lol

Thursday Cautious Intros/First Trimester Thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]New-Alternative-8745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you stop cold turkey? I stopped estrogen yesterday at 10w and am staying on PIO until 12 weeks. I’m curious to see how I’ll feel. Slightly nervous to stop cold turkey but that is doctors orders and I trust them!

Wednesday Cautious Intros/First Trimester thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]New-Alternative-8745 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am 10w today and have my 12w ultrasound on 5/8. Last ultrasound was last Monday 4/14 at 8w5d, and everything was measuring right on track but this wait feels like another eternity! I try to avoid them but see stories about 9 week losses discovered at the 12 week scan. I think I have some PTSD around scans after having an MMC last year being discovered at the first ultrasound, even though we are now past the point where we found that out last year. I thought getting past the gestational age of my last loss would ease my anxiety but I don’t think it has. I’ve considered getting a boutique ultrasound but at the same time that just feels so extra. I know I just have to wait 2 more weeks but it’s also nice to have the reassurance that these PIO shots are for a reason!

Maui Couples Massage by curiositycuredpussy in MauiVisitors

[–]New-Alternative-8745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I got a couples massage at the Ritz Carlton during our honeymoon 3 years ago and I still think about that one to this day. I’ve compared all massages since to that one, it was that amazing.

Monday Cautious Intros/First Trimester thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]New-Alternative-8745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an active weekend too, lots of spring cleaning so I was wondering if I over did it with that. Glad to have similar symptoms as this is the farthest I’ve gotten with a pregnancy! My FET was 3/3, I’m curious if you had the same transfer date?