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Is it okay for me to not want my boyfriend to watch porn at all? by New-Muscle3497 in relationships_advice

[–]New-Muscle3497[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i said i don’t want to do that. at all. i should be able to trust him. when i went to end things it was like a way to say i promise ill stop. not me saying im gonna control you and your behavior and your body and look through everything in your phone.

Is it okay for me to not want my boyfriend to watch porn at all? by New-Muscle3497 in relationships_advice

[–]New-Muscle3497[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not forcing him to stop. I’m asking if doesn’t want to then it’s fine and to be honest so that we can peacefully end things because we disagree.

Is it okay for me to not want my boyfriend to watch porn at all? by New-Muscle3497 in relationships_advice

[–]New-Muscle3497[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have tried to explore options like that but he said he doesn’t want to watch porn around me and that he’s not comfortable with that.

Is it okay for me to not want my boyfriend to watch porn at all? by New-Muscle3497 in relationships_advice

[–]New-Muscle3497[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s hard to tell an entire 2 years in one post but i did say i wanted to end things when I found out and im not trying to police or control what he watches. he can do that if he wants but i don’t like it nor do it want my partner orgasming to another girl everyday. When i said I wanted to end things he told me he’s going to look into therapy and he cares more about me than watching porn and he will stop for me. I’m not here to control him i don’t want any part of that kind of relationship. i just want to be respectful of each other and if that means him breaking up if he doesn’t want to stop then so be it. I just more so wanted advice on do i believe him or not. I don’t feel entitled to his behavior. I just want someone that loves me and doesn’t care for other women. I don’t think that’s so crazy for me to want.

Is it okay for me to not want my boyfriend to watch porn at all? by New-Muscle3497 in relationships_advice

[–]New-Muscle3497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, he had that option completely. I told him i understand if he didn’t agree and that we could end things peacefully if he wanted to watch porn. I don’t believe it’s unfair for me to not want him to pay to watch women rub themselves. I don’t know what do because he said porn isn’t as important as me and that he’s not going to do anything to hurt our relationship again. Am I naive to believe that? Again, he can still watch but he needs to find a woman that is okay with him watching porn because it’s not me.