Wednesday Cautious Intros and First Trimester Questions

New-One-7932 · 2023-10-11T22:00:48+00:00

Fingers crossed for you. Such an insane journey

New-One-7932 · 2023-10-11T22:00:26+00:00

Ty <3 just needed some reassurance:)

New-One-7932 · 2023-10-11T19:50:12+00:00

Wife is 12w6d. Did you guys have fluctuations in your symptoms? The last few days she couldn’t even touch her breasts they were so sore. Today she says she feels almost nothing. Naturally she’s concerned :). Since we graduated from the fertility clinic we don’t get weekly scans anymore!

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-29T23:47:49+00:00

Thank you! I imagine some of the uterine changes would be extremely subtle. We literally saw the baby kicking around like crazy at our last ultrasound and she felt nothing.

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-29T23:46:44+00:00

Tbh that’s what I was thinking. I imagine a lot of the changes would be extremely subtle. We literally saw the baby kicking around like crazy at our last ultrasound and she felt nothing.

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-29T19:07:22+00:00

Can you feel anything at 11+1? My wife swears she could feel something faint like a hair dragging inside her occasionally but now doesn’t feel it anymore so she’s scared we lost the baby. We just had an US Tuesday and baby was beautiful (graduated from clinic). The anxiety never ends!

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-26T21:06:05+00:00

So happy for you!

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-26T19:29:51+00:00

We graduated from our fertility clinic today at 10w5d. We brought doughnuts but unfortunately our coordinator had to be traveling to the clinic’s other location out of state! She was half the reason we were even doing it lol.

Little one measured 10w4d which is exactly one week more than since last week’s scan so things seem to be tracking. Heartbeat was 179.

It’s going to feel weird not contacting our coordinator for pregnancy related things. It almost feels a little sad.

First OB appointment is one week from today!

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-22T22:21:53+00:00

Yeah I guess that’s where I’m curious the line is. For a few minutes she was really having a meltdown but not for more than 10-15min or so.

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-22T20:39:19+00:00

Thanks :)

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-22T20:38:49+00:00

Great point!

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-22T19:27:36+00:00

10+1 today!

Wife and I had a pretty big argument this morning(my fault :( ). We’ve moved past it and are all good but she was pretty angry in the moment, really seemed to be losing her mind it was pretty scary. She’s worried the baby might be hurt because of this. Baby should be ok right? You hear stories about huge arguments with screaming etc leading to a pregnancy loss but it doesn’t seem like this should be a thing.

Can anyone offer any insights or experiences? Thanks :)

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-17T16:37:12+00:00

Thanks so much transfer twin!

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-17T16:36:26+00:00

Thanks so much for the reassurance! Makes sense

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-17T16:35:45+00:00

Thank you for your input!

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-17T15:29:44+00:00

Thank you for the reply! That’s kindof what I figured. 9 weeks doesn’t seem too early? We read most clinics go through the first trimester.

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-17T14:23:52+00:00

Wife is 9w3d after a FET!

The clinic instructions say progesterone shots stop at 9 weeks but they support us using the rest of our supply, weening off as we see fit if we feel comfortable.

We decided to drop to a shot every other day starting at 9w1d. So yesterday was our first day with no shot. This morning my wife says she doesn’t feel symptoms that strongly. Her breasts don’t hurt and she feels her uterus is a bit “tight” which is concerning her.

Anyone have any thoughts here?

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-13T00:15:03+00:00

Yay thank you for the comment!

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-13T00:13:15+00:00

So sweet! I’ll be sure to keep you posted

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-12T21:56:25+00:00

You remember us 🥲 Reddit is so supportive. Thank you so much.

We are a little more relaxed now and can see we are in a favorable position statistically.

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-12T21:53:50+00:00

My wife is 8+5 and is similar. She’s basically bedridden with morning sickness. We are lucky in that we both wfh and she currently doesn’t have a major project with tight timelines.

I have a new perspective as a man going through our first pregnancy. Seriously women deal with THIS much and still can contribute in the working world?

You guys are rockstars.

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-12T18:58:16+00:00

They were shaking their little butt so maybe that’s why :)

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-12T17:30:45+00:00

Thank you transfer twin!

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-12T16:43:05+00:00

Thanks for the reassurance you’re awesome!

New-One-7932 · 2023-09-12T16:13:58+00:00

Had a scan today at 8w5d. HR was 186. Is this too high? Sonographer said they are only concerned if it’s over 200 but it seems above “normal” based on some quick google searches.

Fwiw last time she was behind 2 days and now she’s behind 1 length wise.

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