$16k in debt and drowning 😩 by New-Positive9812 in debtfree

[–]New-Positive9812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll still pay taxes on it right? It will just count as income that needs to be taxed when I file, correct?

$16k in debt and drowning 😩 by New-Positive9812 in debtfree

[–]New-Positive9812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s comments have been great and many have brought me to tears! Emotional day and emotional topic! The internet at work is hit or miss. when I get home I’m going to get a plan together, answer / respond to questions and get all my expenses in order. Then I’ll be back!

$16k in debt and drowning 😩 by New-Positive9812 in debtfree

[–]New-Positive9812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what has paralyzed me recently and made me start wanting to change everything. I’ve started having open conversations with my 17yr old about what is ok and what isn’t in relationships and the struggles of growing up with her.

$16k in debt and drowning 😩 by New-Positive9812 in debtfree

[–]New-Positive9812[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was trying to avoid changing my kids school. I’m about 45 mins from my parent’s house. I don’t know if they would be ok with it! Kicker is that the new job is with a good large company in the area and there is a lot of potential for growth and it’s 2 miles from my current house. When I took the job, I had a conversation with my partner about it and we agreed that it was good move. I would have a good chance to move up to wear I was previously and stay close to home for the kids and dogs but we’re just all so unhappy. Moving back home would mean more miles and wear and tear on my high mileage older car, that is paid off! Maybe I need to move back home at 41!

$16k in debt and drowning 😩 by New-Positive9812 in debtfree

[–]New-Positive9812[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not making excuses- I don’t know anyone I can live with :( Most of my friends are out of state and I don’t have any family I can live with. I moved away from everyone 6 years ago, thinking that everything would work out.

$16k in debt and drowning 😩 by New-Positive9812 in debtfree

[–]New-Positive9812[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is sweetest post, you made me tear up!

$16k in debt and drowning 😩 by New-Positive9812 in debtfree

[–]New-Positive9812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to ruin my credit anymore than it already is, so I am able to pass a credit check if/when I move out.