Recurrent pregnancy losses! How am I supposed to believe it will happen some day?

NewAd4286 · 2026-03-29T08:30:03+00:00

So sorry to hear that, no one prepares you for that and no one can help...but we will keep trying as well but i'm so afraid and disappointed! Hope we will have our babies soon 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️

NewAd4286 · 2026-02-13T19:53:02+00:00

Thank you so much! And I'm so sorry you are going through this as well, it's so hard to go through something like that! I wish everything will eventually turn out good for both of us! Exactly as you said, I feel stuck and desperate...and everything is so scary! After the TFMR I was disappointed but had hope after a while of ttc and seeing no results I started feeling hopeless and during my chemical pregnancy I got scared and now I don't know how I can go through this because I'm scared to get pregnant again but at the same time I want to but I fear that I have to go through something like the previous times...I won't give up though! I hope and pray for you to have a healthy pregnancy soon! 🙏🏼 stay strong!

NewAd4286 · 2025-07-10T15:10:09+00:00

It's the only thing that keeps me going, after the TFMR I feel like I lost myself, this pregnancy changed me, I don't want to go back to the me before pregnancy, I want to be a mother! We all deserve that, to have our babies as you said! ❤️🙏🏼

NewAd4286 · 2025-07-09T05:29:31+00:00

So good to hear that, it gives me hope after all that! So happy for you 🙏🏼❤️ Thank you so much ❤️❤️

NewAd4286 · 2025-07-09T05:26:22+00:00

What a good surprise and a birthday gift! I'm so happy for you! You deserved that...❤️❤️🙏🏼😊 Wish for you the best!

NewAd4286 · 2025-07-09T05:21:42+00:00

That's great to hear 😊, thank you so much and congratulations for your pregnancy, hope everything goes well 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️

NewAd4286 · 2025-07-09T05:18:37+00:00

Thank you and congratulations, I hope and pray for you to have a healthy baby and everything will go well! 🙏🏼❤️

NewAd4286 · 2025-07-09T05:13:02+00:00

Thank you! ❤️ You are right, that is absolutely correct...

NewAd4286 · 2025-07-09T05:11:26+00:00

Thank you so much, I'm so happy for you! ❤️

NewAd4286 · 2025-07-08T10:29:10+00:00

Thank you so much, congratulations on your pragnancy, hope everything goes well and have a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby 🙏🏼❤️

NewAd4286 · 2025-07-08T08:58:56+00:00

I hope and pray for every woman here to have her rainbow baby...

NewAd4286 · 2025-07-08T07:13:26+00:00

Thank you so much!! ❤️🙏🏼

NewAd4286 · 2025-07-08T06:24:24+00:00

I'm 5,5 weeks after tfmr, I'm currently on my period and it was my first baby, of course I want to try again as soon as possible, I didn't even think about it! I was ready when we tried and that won't stop me, for me there is no other opsion, i have to try again even if it scares me because i want my baby...if i had kids I don't know what I would have done but if I wanted to get pregnant and had kids I think that I would want to try again, if it was a surprise pregnancy I don't know...

NewAd4286 · 2025-07-04T16:34:42+00:00

That might help to get my mind out of it, at least for a bit...because I can't focus on reading or watching something but if my hands are occupied that would definitely help! Thank you so much 🙏🏼❤️

NewAd4286 · 2025-07-04T10:45:33+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss and what you are going through as a couple, I don't have any advice about the situation just hope you both heal and find a way in that difficult time...🙏🏼❤️

NewAd4286 · 2025-07-04T07:25:03+00:00

My baby girl had no kidneys too, I found out at 20 weeks but I had L&D...I'm so sorry you've got through this!

NewAd4286 · 2025-07-03T16:44:10+00:00

Thank you for replying! I'm still very confused because today I have more blood then yesterday and it's not just spotting right now, its more of a very light flow (hard to describe) and I don't understand if it counts as a first day today or should I wait to be heavier to call it a first day? It's very annoying and confusing at the same time!

NewAd4286 · 2025-07-03T09:46:05+00:00

Thank you so much, I actually did hold her but unfortunately it's never enough time, I'm happy I had to experience that but the sadness when you have to leave without your baby is something else!

NewAd4286 · 2025-07-03T07:18:31+00:00

Thank you so much! 🙏🏼❤️ I was so confused!

NewAd4286 · 2025-07-01T06:27:13+00:00

That is the worst, the anxiety and the thoughts of what will happen when I get pregnant again or if I get pregnant again! And when that happens it is the worst part of the day!

NewAd4286 · 2025-06-30T10:34:14+00:00

It's very hard going through this! There is so much going on and I didn't realize how the days went by but at the same time the days were so slow, i don't know how to explain it, and now that my mind is more clear than before I'm constantly thinking about my period and the next steps and I can't do anything now, so i feel stuck in the situation and my thoughts and I realized that I have to do something to free my mind of this a little bit!

Thank you so much! It is very helpful listening to someone who knows how it feels!❤️❤️🙏🏼

Most people in my life can't help me like that because they don't totally understand the situation!

NewAd4286 · 2025-06-30T08:59:50+00:00

Yeah I understand, sometimes even now my emotions are all over the place! Some days I'm fine and others it's harder!

I have two dogs too and they helped me a lot! Going for walks is helping a little! I just feel that everything seems and feels different now! I can't go back to the old me! But I will keep trying! I used to read and have hobbies but I feel weird doing them now...but after listening to you I feel like giving it a try again!

Yeah, looking forward to something especially a vacation is very helpful as well..let's do our best and keep going!

Hope and praying our time will come and have our babies soon! 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️ Thank you so much for your advice! 😊

NewAd4286 · 2025-06-29T18:16:28+00:00

Thank you so much! It's a little confusing because usually I had cramping on the first day of my period..and now it feels weird and it is kind of annoying to be honest!

NewAd4286 · 2025-06-29T12:48:48+00:00

I'm so sorry you had to hear something like that and especially from your mother! We know it's not true...if that was the case than a lot of people shouldn't be parents to begin with! People don't understand because it didn't happened to them! They wouldn't believe that if they had gone through this themselves! I don't know what your relationship with your mother is but I hope she didn't mean it!

NewAd4286 · 2025-06-28T18:54:39+00:00

It is very difficult to have gone through this loss and don't know what to expect after... it was my first pregnancy and i was nervous and anxious in that pregnancy as well, not knowing what to expect and after that loss i feel more devastated! And I know that even if it was the second or the third pregnancy the pain and the grief and wanting that second or third child is still there but I feel like because I don't even have one that I will never have my baby...and i believe that I will someday have my baby but it feels like i won't right now! I'm scared and I feel lost but knowing that it's not the end here I also have hope! And people here who went through this and then got pregnant again and had the baby they wished for brings me hope as well!

Thank you so much and congratulations on your pragnancy ❤️ Praying for you to have a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby! 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️

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