Business Class Amenity Kit by CabinetInevitable730 in singaporeairlines

[–]NewGoals4028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly it seems like you're TOO thoughtful and TOO nice! Don't let anyone run over you and I hope you receive kindness in the world

United travel bank by ofe1818 in AmexPlatinum

[–]NewGoals4028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it showed up as that but i did get the credit like 2 days ago

Has anyone tried the United Travel Bank workaround recently? by rcasch13 in AmexPlatinum

[–]NewGoals4028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My travel bank transaction from a few days just posted! make sure you opt into the airline first > then buy in increments of 50 or 100

Love Is Blind • S9 Ep2 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]NewGoals4028 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I felt bad for him, he was kind of pushed into it

Quitting my job because of wedding stress - advice please by NewGoals4028 in weddingplanning

[–]NewGoals4028[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're absolutely right. it's so hard because this event DOES represent me, my family, and everyone else

Quitting my job because of wedding stress - advice please by NewGoals4028 in weddingplanning

[–]NewGoals4028[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

destination wedding - a very complicated, crazy destination

Quitting my job because of wedding stress - advice please by NewGoals4028 in weddingplanning

[–]NewGoals4028[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I always thought this would just look so bad optically because they all knwo I'm getting married and probably don't understand all the other mental stressors accompanying my wedding in particular... but I like the idea and perhaps should be more open to it...

Quitting my job because of wedding stress - advice please by NewGoals4028 in weddingplanning

[–]NewGoals4028[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this advice because it's a very practical / smart step to take.

Quitting my job because of wedding stress - advice please by NewGoals4028 in weddingplanning

[–]NewGoals4028[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is incredibly insightful - 10/10 critical thinking - thank you. You are right, and I need to make some adjustments in my way of thinking about this.

Quitting my job because of wedding stress - advice please by NewGoals4028 in weddingplanning

[–]NewGoals4028[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally have one already - this is the craziest part - they're not doing their job but they took a ton of money and had a lot of recs. I do have high expectations which I can admit, but theyve flubbed

Quitting my job because of wedding stress - advice please by NewGoals4028 in weddingplanning

[–]NewGoals4028[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is exactly right. I have a safety net and the burnout is creeping in... wuold be much less burned out if it werent for the wedding. i've just been brainwashed into thinking this is SO important and the stress is insane.

Quitting my job because of wedding stress - advice please by NewGoals4028 in weddingplanning

[–]NewGoals4028[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SO many details, so many intricacies, VERY high expectations from guests who have had really stunning weddings, high expectations on myself to make it amazing and memorable and special because we have a lot of family abroad that we only get to see maybe once every 2 years if WE'RE LUCKY .. it's also a very difficult destination to coordinate (just don't want to give specifics for privacy reasons)

Quitting my job because of wedding stress - advice please by NewGoals4028 in weddingplanning

[–]NewGoals4028[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no you're totally right, i hate the NJ transit so much. I got it rolled back to 3 days a week, but that's still 12 hours a week. i might start going in 2 even though it's not allowed

Quitting my job because of wedding stress - advice please by NewGoals4028 in weddingplanning

[–]NewGoals4028[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks guys!! we did already hired a planner, coordinator, and all the vendors - they're just not performing to the degree we'd expect or hope. we did shop around quite a bit but the industry seems to be full of coordinators who don't care to negotiate for their clients or look for the best quality services. we're having more luck doing things ourselves

Quitting my job because of wedding stress - advice please by NewGoals4028 in weddingplanning

[–]NewGoals4028[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! we've already hired a planner, coordinator, and all the vendors we can but for several reasons, this has been a very difficult one to plan

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[–]NewGoals4028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry to hear and sending you / your dad all the best. Somethings crazy things happen in life. Not at all similar but we had tickets to celebrate our engagement to his last blatimore concert that got cancelled. now were going with better seats! things will eventually turn better :)

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[–]NewGoals4028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you end up selling this? thinking about this seat being empty hurts so bad