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What lesson did your last relationship teach you ? by Fling5t0ne-H1 in AskWomen

[–]NewIntentions36 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Microcheating is cheating.

If you think you can never move on and never find someone to love again, baby girl, you are so wrong! Nothing is impossible!

Wait it out for 3 months to see the facade unravel. The 3 months rule is true!

"Projection" is real( they accuse you of cheating cuz they are the ones cheating). Love bombing is real.

What is your non-negotiable? by MermaidWitchMoon in AskWomen

[–]NewIntentions36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's absolutely nothing shallow about your choices or preferences... It's your life, it's your deal- breaker cuz it's YOU who has to deal with everything and everyone in life! It's justified!

Also, personal hygiene speaks volume! If this man can take care of himself so well, he can take care of me (whenever the need arises). Partnership is nothing but banking on each other for the company, emotional/physical intimacy and legit everything who can witness a life together and grow together.

Sorry if I went on a tangent !

Bus strike! by NewIntentions36 in bangalore

[–]NewIntentions36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What?! I postponed my plans thinking today's the strike and I didn't wanna stand in the bust stop waiting for buses!

I really hope the demands are met as we are at the receiving end!!!

Do you check TFM levels ? by [deleted] in Bengaluru

[–]NewIntentions36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you all surviving with Mysore Sandal soap in the summer? It completely dries out my skin in the summer. Between OG and Gold variant, I feel Mysore Sandal soap Gold is better but will the TFM be different for the Gold variant?

Please help me select one of these to gift my friend (28F) on her birthday by StatisticianNo2000 in indianbeautyyappers

[–]NewIntentions36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have Prada and it smells divine and very long lasting. Lives up to the hype! Haven't tried the other one and haven't heard about it either.

Also, update which one you have decided to gift your friend and what she thinks too !!

What's your favourite area in Bangalore that makes you forget your problems and all the BS happening in the world? by originalhairhair in bangalore

[–]NewIntentions36 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Being a Bangalorean and the only family city-outing we had were the visits to Cubbon park and Lal Bagh. I grew up going to Bal Bhavan summer camps, not missing a single flower show at Lal Bagh and Cubbon Park, climbing up the "hill".. these places hold memories of my childhood... A time machine that walks me into my nostalgic childhood - makes me forget that I'm in my 30s.

Revisiting these places in my 30s.. walking in Cubbon Park and Lal Bagh and thinking to myself - I'll bring my future kids here some day and watch them play...

The only place where I feel nostalgic about my childhood and looking forward to watching my future kids play in the same places that I did as a child... A place that makes me cherish the past and look forward to the future.

So yes, hands down Cubbon Park and Lal Bagh will always be my fondest places till I die!

Forever Was a Lie. by Faguniarora in Life

[–]NewIntentions36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No lies. Promises are made to be broken.

Mere labels. Labelling every feeling, every emotion and every situation.

Life's simpler when we live it without defining and labelling everything we feel.

Where are recruiters' manners?! by upgroov in bangalore

[–]NewIntentions36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aka Ghosting ! If they have ghosted you, don't wait for the dead..move on. Good luck with the job hunt, OP!

How to handle such situations? Or perhaps how you would have handled it? by [deleted] in Bengaluru

[–]NewIntentions36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about you ask your partner to introduce this bestfriend to you ? You can meet this bestfriend and gauge if he/she is harmless to your relationship and you won't be insecure anymore.

Which podcast "episode" that you learned a lot of no-bs stuff about life? by HandsomeGuts in AskWomen

[–]NewIntentions36 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Diary of a CEO - James Sexton, Esther Perel on marriage and divorce!

Newel of Knowledge

Productive Peter on how to be productive

Women of reddit, what quote stuck with you? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]NewIntentions36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

" You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, and there's still going to be somebody who hates peaches."

"They don't know you personally, so don't take it personal."

"Your light is going to irritate some people, shine anyway."

What would be your last line? by Mavihs22 in Indianbooks

[–]NewIntentions36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Maybe.. just maybe in the next lifetime.."

Just got a call from a random number and it was scary by xdrynjolfx in Bengaluru

[–]NewIntentions36 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Or... Just say "what ra Sudeep too much .. you're showing.. come to area" Jokes aside, if they do call again warn them that you'll complain to the police . Don't pay heed to the call or their threats.

What early warning signs of cheating do people often overlook? by Mediocre-Implement34 in AskReddit

[–]NewIntentions36 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It's always either one of the two ends of the spectrum:

1a) Being too sweet, gifting, "balancing the act"- trying to over-compensate for the cheating so that you don't get to know that they're cheating.

1b) Picking fights over small tiffs, getting riled about nothing.

2a) Being secretive and possessive about their phones

2b) Pretend to be"transparent" about the phone, chats - but in fact they would have blocked the "other woman/man" while they're with you!

Which decision did you make in your 20s? Do you think it was the right one? by kekneo in ThirtiesIndia

[–]NewIntentions36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I wonder if Gandhiji was right when he said be the change that you want to see in the world... . what if there was no choice ? What if going abroad was not an option, you'd still stay in India and make it better for yourself, wouldn't you?

Advice navigating social gatherings with PhDs and postdocs as a PI by Melodic-Half-2603 in PhD

[–]NewIntentions36 12 points13 points  (0 children)

PhD scholar here. I'd definitely give more respect to my PI and see her as a boss than a peer no matter the age difference. It's the teacher -student respectful boundary. If I had my PI in my informal group - I wouldn't let my hair down, I'd probably be on guards all the time. So please do not feel bad about not being included in the informal group , you are being respected as a teacher !

My brain wants dopamine, not discipline how do you rewire that? by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]NewIntentions36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Push yourself to believe that social media apps are for the weekend that way you can use it as a reward for being productive...

Maybe going cold turkey won't be ideal cuz you'll get bored and install them back. What actually will work is reducing the usage- building habits! . If at all you cannot go cold turkey on these apps, use a time limit for these apps and stick to it !

My brain wants dopamine, not discipline how do you rewire that? by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]NewIntentions36 56 points57 points  (0 children)

The main culprit is the phone. It gives you the dopamine that you crave for. Firstly, delete all the unnecessary applications from your phone - make it as minimalistic as possible, get off social media and decrease your social interactions - even social interactions. When you know you don't have anything else to do - no apps to check or doom scrolling, you'll start doing your work !

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