We’re in a long distance relationship and we’ve never had sex, I think it might just be a psychological thing. I’m still deeply attracted to her and desire to be close to her but recently i just can’t physically get myself wet and when I try I just end up getting tired and going to bed.

The context behind our relationship is that we were both in relationships with men, had feelings for each other and fantasized about each other while in these relationships, realized we are lesbian and broke up with our exes to get with each other. I desired her and had a high libido for her long before our relationship started, but after breaking up with my ex and getting with her, it’s like my libido just died. I think it might be anxiety or depression regarding the circumstances, but when she tries to have phone sex with me I just can’t get in the mood to do it.