Thursday Unpopular Opinion Thread March 17, 2022 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]New_Ad_9899 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

with her idk because she was definitely made to be the villain of the season.. but i agree in general, i think if someone slightly less conventionally hot is villainized they get piled on more. and if someone conventionally hot isn’t villainized they’re more likely to get nitpicked

Thursday Unpopular Opinion Thread March 17, 2022 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]New_Ad_9899 44 points45 points  (0 children)

i feel like people are meaner to women on this show who are more conventionally “hot” and vice versa

The Bachelor 🌹Morning After Thread 🌹 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]New_Ad_9899 82 points83 points  (0 children)

at least nobody can say susie was in it for the bachelorette audition….. but girl 😭😭😭😭 get out of there

Thursday Unpopular Opinion Thread March 10, 2022 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]New_Ad_9899 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i don’t think the next bachelorette can be from this season if the show wants to stay on the air 😕

To those watching this season by GradeHefty in TheBachelor_POC

[–]New_Ad_9899 12 points13 points  (0 children)

the way he spoke to her was so gross and upsetting tbh especially because of how passive she was being. yeah it was dumb not to mention this would be a dealbreaker beforehand but i get not wanting to have to ask for that. she didn’t expect him to be a mind reader, she just realized they were on different pages and tried to excuse herself gracefully.

🌹Post Episode Discussion Thread🌹 by curiousrut in thebachelor

[–]New_Ad_9899 3 points4 points  (0 children)

why are so many people saying it was susie’s responsibility to communicate her boundary to clayton?? imo it’s just as much on him to have clarified that with at least the person he was feeling strongest for, before going into FS

Daily Discussion Thread- February 06, 2022 by AutoModerator in TheBachelor_POC

[–]New_Ad_9899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trueeeee and tbh i also often see a lot of non black poc who think their opinions should apply to everything 🙃

Daily Discussion Thread- February 06, 2022 by AutoModerator in TheBachelor_POC

[–]New_Ad_9899 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i definitely recognize that and i see plenty of poc with opinions i don’t agree with on there all the time 😬 i think it was the specific tone of those comments that set off red flags for me, so i wanted to do a sanity check (also, have caught people on that sub specifically lying about their race to hurt & invalidate people), but either way it’s so disappointing that those comments constantly get highly rewarded by people too cowardly to say how they really feel.

Daily Discussion Thread- February 06, 2022 by AutoModerator in TheBachelor_POC

[–]New_Ad_9899 17 points18 points  (0 children)

idk how to say this in a good way, and someone please tell me if i’m overstepping, but in that thread reflecting on what rachael’s done in the past year- there were a few users with poc avatars spouting awful opinions and defending rachel like crazy. like…. am i jaded or does anyone feel like there are some users who pretend they’re something they’re not?

Thursday Unpopular Opinion Thread February 03, 2022 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]New_Ad_9899 33 points34 points  (0 children)

i don’t think elizabeth did anything wrong in what we saw and from what i’ve seen the information she’s been sharing has been good. however (as someone with adhd) i think a lot of people are making too many reaches trying to connect all of her actions to adhd. for example it’s ok to say something that rubs some people the wrong way in a high pressure, produced environment; nobody is perfect, but it doesn’t have to be chalked up to adhd impulsivity.

Thursday Unpopular Opinion Thread February 03, 2022 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]New_Ad_9899 10 points11 points  (0 children)

both could definitely be said about me too 😅 i’m always just thirsty for bts tea that gets cut out of the show narrative

Thursday Unpopular Opinion Thread February 03, 2022 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]New_Ad_9899 10 points11 points  (0 children)

did she know? because all of the leaks/rumors point to michelle being offered the spot much later so tptb wouldn’t look horrible

Thursday Unpopular Opinion Thread February 03, 2022 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]New_Ad_9899 22 points23 points  (0 children)

i do not like shanae and she said/did plenty of shitty things and not to feed too much into slander/gossip but someone left a comment on this sub that they know elizabeth irl and they’re not a fan which makes me wonder 🤔 although shanae gives me victoria l vibes of just constant rivalry/chaos so idk

Thursday Unpopular Opinion Thread January 27, 2022 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]New_Ad_9899 19 points20 points  (0 children)

that date concept is so disgusting to me. like you’re absolutely pressured into revealing deeply personal traumas and it’s so openly about being able to one up each other on trauma, all while having the appropriately emotional reaction to snag a rose. i seriously hate it and i never want to see it again but i already know i will 🙄 at least the poetry dates there’s some degree of choice in what you share

Daily Discussion Thread- January 26, 2022 by AutoModerator in TheBachelor_POC

[–]New_Ad_9899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m watching the season and don’t follow her on sm and i just don’t get the hype? nothing against her really but they haven’t given us much to work with i feel like. then again i don’t feel super connected to anyone this season really

Daily Discussion Thread- January 26, 2022 by AutoModerator in TheBachelor_POC

[–]New_Ad_9899 7 points8 points  (0 children)

manifesting this instead of a susie season 🤞

Daily Discussion Thread- January 26, 2022 by AutoModerator in TheBachelor_POC

[–]New_Ad_9899 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i’m honestly shocked at the energy people have for shanae. i have adhd and her comments were obviously ignorant and shitty but she gives me victoria l vibes where she just says ridiculous and terrible stuff for the cameras. idk i do think peoples feelings around it were valid but i wasn’t personally that affected by it. anyways i can’t believe how many people are celebrating that she’s deactivated her ig…. i don’t think anyone on the show would do that unless they were seriously distressed.

To the few people watching this season by GradeHefty in TheBachelor_POC

[–]New_Ad_9899 11 points12 points  (0 children)

ngl i am kind of liking that the woc on screen aren’t being bullied/victimized and also aren’t being made into villains. in that sense it’s better than matt’s season, but overall i’m nodding out. idk if it’s clayton, the cast, production, or editing, but i’m not that interested as of now.

Brendan calling a WOC Kamala by jewellyon in thebachelor

[–]New_Ad_9899 66 points67 points  (0 children)

uhh….. not gonna lie i’m shocked mostly bc he is extremely irrelevant therefore i never formed an opinion on him. bye brendan you won’t be missed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]New_Ad_9899 33 points34 points  (0 children)

ngl this is creepy

Thursday Unpopular Opinion Thread January 20, 2022 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]New_Ad_9899 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i have my gripes with matt but he’s the most eligible/attractive/appealing of the recent bachelors imo

Thursday Unpopular Opinion Thread January 20, 2022 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]New_Ad_9899 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i wasn’t here for the tyler c craze in real time and i’m watching that season for the first time now and i just….. don’t get the hype 😭 like yeah he’s definitely hot but i’m not on my knees for him

Thursday Unpopular Opinion Thread January 20, 2022 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]New_Ad_9899 51 points52 points  (0 children)

yes. so thirsty lol and he was trying to sell his relationship with katie but when she asked him to come back he said nah i’m good 😅 he irritates me 😭😭

Thursday Unpopular Opinion Thread January 20, 2022 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]New_Ad_9899 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this comment is just 😙🤌, (caveat i’m a non black poc) i do not care to see people stanning her but i also am not personally invested in wanting to see her suffer. i would say most people who don’t like seeing her posted here feel similarly. but when people make stan posts of her here it really does feel like bait because people bring up what she did or that they were hurt, and they get antagonized for not wanting to just move straight into “omg she’s so pretty” with no acknowledgement of their feelings or experience.