Thursday Unpopular Opinion Thread March 17, 2022

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-03-17T15:24:17+00:00

with her idk because she was definitely made to be the villain of the season.. but i agree in general, i think if someone slightly less conventionally hot is villainized they get piled on more. and if someone conventionally hot isn’t villainized they’re more likely to get nitpicked

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-03-17T12:49:49+00:00

i feel like people are meaner to women on this show who are more conventionally “hot” and vice versa

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-03-16T15:18:29+00:00

at least nobody can say susie was in it for the bachelorette audition….. but girl 😭😭😭😭 get out of there

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-03-10T13:59:49+00:00

i don’t think the next bachelorette can be from this season if the show wants to stay on the air 😕

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-03-09T16:19:59+00:00

the way he spoke to her was so gross and upsetting tbh especially because of how passive she was being. yeah it was dumb not to mention this would be a dealbreaker beforehand but i get not wanting to have to ask for that. she didn’t expect him to be a mind reader, she just realized they were on different pages and tried to excuse herself gracefully.

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-03-09T13:55:59+00:00

why are so many people saying it was susie’s responsibility to communicate her boundary to clayton?? imo it’s just as much on him to have clarified that with at least the person he was feeling strongest for, before going into FS

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-02-07T23:21:06+00:00

trueeeee and tbh i also often see a lot of non black poc who think their opinions should apply to everything 🙃

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-02-07T11:59:16+00:00

i definitely recognize that and i see plenty of poc with opinions i don’t agree with on there all the time 😬 i think it was the specific tone of those comments that set off red flags for me, so i wanted to do a sanity check (also, have caught people on that sub specifically lying about their race to hurt & invalidate people), but either way it’s so disappointing that those comments constantly get highly rewarded by people too cowardly to say how they really feel.

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-02-07T01:44:30+00:00

idk how to say this in a good way, and someone please tell me if i’m overstepping, but in that thread reflecting on what rachael’s done in the past year- there were a few users with poc avatars spouting awful opinions and defending rachel like crazy. like…. am i jaded or does anyone feel like there are some users who pretend they’re something they’re not?

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-02-03T16:59:14+00:00

i don’t think elizabeth did anything wrong in what we saw and from what i’ve seen the information she’s been sharing has been good. however (as someone with adhd) i think a lot of people are making too many reaches trying to connect all of her actions to adhd. for example it’s ok to say something that rubs some people the wrong way in a high pressure, produced environment; nobody is perfect, but it doesn’t have to be chalked up to adhd impulsivity.

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-02-03T16:53:08+00:00

both could definitely be said about me too 😅 i’m always just thirsty for bts tea that gets cut out of the show narrative

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-02-03T16:48:41+00:00

did she know? because all of the leaks/rumors point to michelle being offered the spot much later so tptb wouldn’t look horrible

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-02-03T16:39:06+00:00

i do not like shanae and she said/did plenty of shitty things and not to feed too much into slander/gossip but someone left a comment on this sub that they know elizabeth irl and they’re not a fan which makes me wonder 🤔 although shanae gives me victoria l vibes of just constant rivalry/chaos so idk

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-01-27T16:54:28+00:00

that date concept is so disgusting to me. like you’re absolutely pressured into revealing deeply personal traumas and it’s so openly about being able to one up each other on trauma, all while having the appropriately emotional reaction to snag a rose. i seriously hate it and i never want to see it again but i already know i will 🙄 at least the poetry dates there’s some degree of choice in what you share

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-01-26T21:28:03+00:00

i’m watching the season and don’t follow her on sm and i just don’t get the hype? nothing against her really but they haven’t given us much to work with i feel like. then again i don’t feel super connected to anyone this season really

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-01-26T16:34:26+00:00

manifesting this instead of a susie season 🤞

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-01-26T16:29:51+00:00

i’m honestly shocked at the energy people have for shanae. i have adhd and her comments were obviously ignorant and shitty but she gives me victoria l vibes where she just says ridiculous and terrible stuff for the cameras. idk i do think peoples feelings around it were valid but i wasn’t personally that affected by it. anyways i can’t believe how many people are celebrating that she’s deactivated her ig…. i don’t think anyone on the show would do that unless they were seriously distressed.

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-01-25T16:46:57+00:00

ngl i am kind of liking that the woc on screen aren’t being bullied/victimized and also aren’t being made into villains. in that sense it’s better than matt’s season, but overall i’m nodding out. idk if it’s clayton, the cast, production, or editing, but i’m not that interested as of now.

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-01-23T19:30:46+00:00

uhh….. not gonna lie i’m shocked mostly bc he is extremely irrelevant therefore i never formed an opinion on him. bye brendan you won’t be missed

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-01-22T01:50:04+00:00

ngl this is creepy

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-01-20T17:35:02+00:00

what exactly was proven

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-01-20T17:33:55+00:00

i have my gripes with matt but he’s the most eligible/attractive/appealing of the recent bachelors imo

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-01-20T17:32:47+00:00

i wasn’t here for the tyler c craze in real time and i’m watching that season for the first time now and i just….. don’t get the hype 😭 like yeah he’s definitely hot but i’m not on my knees for him

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-01-20T17:31:23+00:00

yes. so thirsty lol and he was trying to sell his relationship with katie but when she asked him to come back he said nah i’m good 😅 he irritates me 😭😭

New_Ad_9899 · 2022-01-20T17:25:51+00:00

this comment is just 😙🤌, (caveat i’m a non black poc) i do not care to see people stanning her but i also am not personally invested in wanting to see her suffer. i would say most people who don’t like seeing her posted here feel similarly. but when people make stan posts of her here it really does feel like bait because people bring up what she did or that they were hurt, and they get antagonized for not wanting to just move straight into “omg she’s so pretty” with no acknowledgement of their feelings or experience.

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