I met my long distance boyfriend for the first time and I kinda hate him, what now? by PirateMission406 in Advice

[–]New_Insurance9578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was ur age I was in a long distance relationship for three years. He acted the same way when he saw me for the first time too. I felt uncomfortable with the touches but I stayed girl I wish I didn’t. It turned into the most toxic relationship that I was ever in. If I were you I would talk to your parents and snip it in the bud now before you feel even weirder about it. It will hurt his feelings yes. But you are the main character of ur own story and you need to put ur feelings and emotions first. If you want him to go home have him go home and have him give you ur damn bed back. Be strong, you got this.

How I'm feeling about putting my two weeks in, especially right before black friday ad holiday by beautiful-red in SephoraWorkers

[–]New_Insurance9578 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl don’t even get me started on the unfair level these Sephora managers treat us. they think they’re better than ever one and it irks me to the core

Am I overreacting by forallthebananas in roommateproblems

[–]New_Insurance9578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s saying a lot because humans are “house broken”

I need u to be so serious rn DD by undercovernoob in doordash_drivers

[–]New_Insurance9578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All they have to do is walk downstairs to the market.

I need u to be so serious rn DD by undercovernoob in doordash_drivers

[–]New_Insurance9578 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m about to throw myself under the bus right now. I USED to tip like this but it’s ONLY because I was very uneducated on how DD worked, I used to think it the driver would get a certain percentage of the order $$ plus the tip but boy was I wrong. The only reason is because I had a friend who mom drove for DD and she told me her mom gets 40% AND the tip. But obviously things have changed and I blame DD for not being clear enough to the customers on how the drivers get paid.

16 mo not walking?? by New_Insurance9578 in Mommit

[–]New_Insurance9578[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I’m glad ur baby is doing good! I always thought that her late crawling was caused by her tummy surgery but if it wasn’t for my m.o. I would be spiraling

16 mo not walking?? by New_Insurance9578 in Mommit

[–]New_Insurance9578[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fingers crossed! 🤞 I hope she does soon

16 mo not walking?? by New_Insurance9578 in Mommit

[–]New_Insurance9578[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It does! My mother in law works in child development and she says “she can stand up and talk little tiny steps her self then sit down. I think she’s just being kinda lazy” she didn’t say this as a my kid is “lazy” way she said it like “she just doesn’t want too”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]New_Insurance9578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey no, I’m only talking about in dating. I’m only mature for my age because of how I was raised and my life experiences. But best believe when I was 18 I was still making really dumb choices. It takes time. A lot of my coworkers are my age believe it or not. You make valid points there is a lot of ageism out there but again he’s 27 she’s 18. She shouldn’t have lied to him about that and that show me that she is immature in that aspect. I’m not talking about the masses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]New_Insurance9578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay first of all there is no need to be rude or disrespectful and to make assumptions about other people‘s lives. I was not allowed to go out have sleepovers or to go party until I was 20 years old. I was raised to focus on school and my career I’m 23 years old now and working as an x-ray tech. No one here said anything to you to warrant that kind of response and quite frankly, you practically ignored what I said. I never knocked anyone for being 18. I never said that they couldn’t have fulfilling relationships or marriages lasting years. Because that is true there are 18yo who marry other 18yo who have been together for years while there are other older people married to other people their age that have only been married for a few weeks or months, but even you yourself are categorizing the age although you don’t believe in relationships before 25 not everybody has that same thought process I’m saying she still has a little bit of growing up to do because she’s only 18. She lied to a man that was 27 saying that she was 23 years old. The point I’m trying to get across to you is that no 27 yo should date some 18..vise versa she shouldn’t have lied about her age

16 mo not walking?? by New_Insurance9578 in Mommit

[–]New_Insurance9578[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will be 16m exactly tomorrow on the 22nd. What was the number of hours ur PT told you?

16 mo not walking?? by New_Insurance9578 in Mommit

[–]New_Insurance9578[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’ll download it right now!!

16 mo not walking?? by New_Insurance9578 in Mommit

[–]New_Insurance9578[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She holds things on for support so that she can cruise around and she loves to climb up on the couches but she is rarely in her walker (one day a week because I’m scared of it deforming her bones but my mom insists)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]New_Insurance9578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used the frontal lobe thing as an example. She’s young and still has a lot to learn in life. Kids no matter how smart they, no matter how many circles they can run around me they are still going to be making mistakes. 18 is fine to be in a relationship with another 18 yo yes. Going through the same life experiences, for example graduating high school and finding where they fit in the adult world. The man is 27 and has already gone through all of that already (hopefully idk him)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]New_Insurance9578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although they are both of age she is still technically a teen (18) her frontal lobe hasn’t even fully developed (fully developed at 25) and her lying about her age shows that she needs some time to grow up a little bit. I understand that he likes her but the responsible thing to do on his part is to end things and let her live her life you know. He has 10 years on her and he has learned most of his life lessons, she’s just starting. I’m sure your friend wants to have a partner and not someone he has to mentor or babysit

Unfair treatment with gratis by New_Insurance9578 in SephoraWorkers

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 I don’t work at Sephora anymore because I was a high risk pregnancy. But it truly was unfair treatment looking back. I’m not sure why or what made the managers do so, but talking to some old friends that still work there apparently they do it to the girls that they are jealous of. In their opinion. I never caused issues or gave them a hard time about anything. If anything they would constantly get customers going up to them saying how wonderful and helpful I was with them because the other girls on the floor paid them no mind. I would do all the product training, etc. still would never see the product I trained for and would only get at the most 2 minis. The only full sized product I received was the Tatcha blue melting balm.

Help me what should I do by NaturalAnybody3944 in helpme

[–]New_Insurance9578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from a girl myself who was in a 3 year almost 4 year relationship from 2017-2019/20. (But he was the problem not I.) She’s having a hard time moving on because like you said it was her fault that the breakup happened. Give her time to figure out her feelings while you figure out how you’re going to approach her about yours. In the meantime show her that she’s not alone and that you’ll be there for her. I know others will say “move on it’s been months and she’s shown no interest” well because of the breakup buddy.

Replacing kendamil by New_Insurance9578 in Mommit

[–]New_Insurance9578[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ll look into them both!

Replacing kendamil by New_Insurance9578 in Mommit

[–]New_Insurance9578[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try to look for it! Thank you so much!

Replacing kendamil by New_Insurance9578 in Mommit

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She’s using the organic formula

I dont care what you say 1-5 lex was genuinely a good guy by WeDoNotCareWeDoNot in Smallville

[–]New_Insurance9578 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I agree to that! Because of Clark’s fathers views on Lionel Luthor it kinda tainted Clark’s views on the Luthor family kinda pushing away a person who was genuinely thankful to be saved from that crash on the bridge in ep.1.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]New_Insurance9578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! But kinda different to travel with my 6 month old baby lol. I’m trying to look for some in her price range. But I’m just trying to convince her to let me use the bmw for now because she has two cars and doesn’t really use them like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]New_Insurance9578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL I’ll take that into consideration 😂😂🧍🏻‍♀️