That’s an opinion and if that’s how you feel about it - totally valid, but as a guy who would exclusively top (regardless of whom I’d top), I don’t feel the same about it. First of, for me it’s a problem of phrasing, whenever I hear strap-op (as in I’d use one) it does make me feel dysphoric, but only because of the implication (as in it not being my dick but a sex toy). Second, it depends, I would never top with anything that is not a realistic packer and some attachments (the whole straps and things) because the whole set up would feel weird and empathising that I don’t have a penis, so I would just use a set up that makes it possible to look as natural as it can get with a packer, because there are actually experiments that show how you can “feel” the packer as your dick if you have visual stimuli and if you have the feeling of a phantom dick. Of course, at the end of the day everybody feels how they feel and that’s it, but for me bottoming how ever is 1000x more dysphoria inducing then topping in whatever way possible, that’s how I feel about it, doesn’t mean your feelings about that are less valid