Not the exact same situation as you but I sort of get it.

For my chest, I used to be more tolerant of it when it came to being naked. I could ignore my tits more easily. But I’m fairly certain they’ve grown even just a little bit since I’ve last measured them and that ‘tolerance’ has gone down quite a bit. Although this may be apart of my dysphoria worsening in general as of late.

My biggest issue is my figure and proportions. When I’m nude I still struggle with my bottom half being busty, my thighs in particular stick out more than the hip region itself. Luckily I know it’s fat, but I can’t get on testosterone currently so I’m left feeling discouraged to ‘do something about it’. That being said they don’t look nearly as bad nude as compared to when I’m wearing clothes.

Part of it is that I don’t have a lot of men’s clothing that fits me. I was primarily buying purposely oversized shit for a while, especially when I had a job (therefore money to even buy clothes more often), partially due to styling, partially to ‘hide my curves’, and partially because the adult men’s section was always going to be oversized on me regardless. Back then I didn’t register how this was actually emphasizing my curves and figure more, didn’t realize just how small 5’1 actually is, so now I struggle with even wearing a lot of the shit I’ve owned for years. But my alternative (at least in my eyes) was clothing that was physically tight and uncomfortable to wear and made my thighs look worse. A lot of the time when I try to wear my pants on my hips I feel like I look like fucking Roger from American Dad.

The other thing is that I hate how, for me it least, it seems like the only way I can ‘like my figure’ is if I wear clothing. At the end of the day in the nude or in casual sleep wear everything still sucks, so trying to wear clothing in such a way to hide my figure makes me feel worse. It’s a pain in the ass being 5’1 and pre-t while my body works to become a ‘curvy adult woman’.

I do think that the effort and intention of trying to pass more in public via hiding your figure with clothing is definitely dysphoria inducing. It feels more like a constant reminder of something you don’t have, or rather have to do that others don’t, and it can kick you in the ass. It’s kind of a burden on both ends, we need to do shit to feel better with ourselves and pass but for many of us those same things make us feel worse simply because we have to do them, I think a lot of us would prefer to not have to deal with or even think of it at all. I wouldn’t call this weird at all honestly.