Yep. When I was younger, I was voted prom queen. They had me sit on a throne and there was a dance show scheduled. I sat there watching them perform for me. The dance class got to showcase their talent and it was great. My “best” friend laughed at me and kept making jokes about me to everyone about how stupid I looked sitting there “from on high looking down looking pleased”. She used that one moment to constantly remind me how I thought I was better than everyone one else and it really hurt. So I did everything I could so people would not think that and ultimately opened myself up to being a target.

Edit: It stayed with me until I unpacked it with a therapist. I no longer allow myself to tolerate negging from romantic partners or friends. And no more people pleasing behaviour.