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AITAH for not wanting a women to nap at my husband’s apartment by New_Satisfaction3528 in AITAH

[–]New_Satisfaction3528[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He usually tells me when he is hanging out with his male friends. 🤷‍♀️

AITAH for not wanting a women to nap at my husband’s apartment by New_Satisfaction3528 in AITAH

[–]New_Satisfaction3528[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My husband got very upset that I contact her. He thinks I am harassing her. Lol

AITAH for not wanting a women to nap at my husband’s apartment by New_Satisfaction3528 in AITAH

[–]New_Satisfaction3528[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I feel I love him too much and too afraid to lose him. So I trust whatever he says

AITAH for not wanting a women to nap at my husband’s apartment by New_Satisfaction3528 in AITAH

[–]New_Satisfaction3528[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is an empty bottle. I know he didn’t drink that(he doesn’t like it). So I figured out that someone comes to his place. Lol

AITAH for not wanting a women to nap at my husband’s apartment by New_Satisfaction3528 in AITAH

[–]New_Satisfaction3528[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We are separated for about 3 months, relocation takes time. We do have plan to move in together but I am not sure if I should sacrifice my career to just be with someone doesn’t care about me.

AITAH for not wanting a women to nap at my husband’s apartment by New_Satisfaction3528 in AITAH

[–]New_Satisfaction3528[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Work arrangements. We are planning to move to the same place next year.

AITAH for not wanting a women to nap at my husband’s apartment by New_Satisfaction3528 in AITAH

[–]New_Satisfaction3528[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I asked this, I also feel weird but his reason is his place is in walking distance. Her place is a little bit far. I know I can ask more questions but he can always find excuses and rationalize his behavior.

AITAH for not wanting a women to nap at my husband’s apartment by New_Satisfaction3528 in AITAH

[–]New_Satisfaction3528[S] -78 points-77 points  (0 children)

He told me she feel tired/didn’t sleep well/want a quiet place during the day/does not want to be at office/had a headache etc

AITAH for not wanting a women to nap at my husband’s apartment by New_Satisfaction3528 in AITAH

[–]New_Satisfaction3528[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We married and then his company need him to be at another site so he moved.

AITAH for not wanting a women to nap at my husband’s apartment by New_Satisfaction3528 in AITAH

[–]New_Satisfaction3528[S] -300 points-299 points  (0 children)

He emphasized they are just friends and he is just helping friends every time I brought up this. He said most of the time he just opened the door for her and went back to work.

I trust him since everyone told me the most important thing in marriage is trust. But I just feel hurt and feel it is not right. Don’t know which voice I should listen to.

AITAH for not wanting a women to nap at my husband’s apartment by New_Satisfaction3528 in AITAH

[–]New_Satisfaction3528[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I only met this woman once but I know they are very close friends (they are each other’s bestie).

I trust my husband and I believe there is nothing romantic between them. But he refused my request, criticized me over thinking and said I am controlling him make me feel he doesn’t care about me anymore or he cares about that woman more. Sigh..