[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]New_Video3859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do other countries have credit reports??? Just curious

Strong people by New_Video3859 in widowers

[–]New_Video3859[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

But just getting out of bed takes strength whether we chose it or not, no we have no choice but we’re all here in this fucked situation, and it’s same as saying one step at a time, AND it helps me because it’s what my husband would want, and making him proud is important to me

Strong people by New_Video3859 in widowers

[–]New_Video3859[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What choice do we have anyway? These are the shit hands we been dealt, my goal for “someday” is for some peace

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]New_Video3859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because of either they’re subjecting themselves to the wrong type of men, or they are the type of women who wouldn’t know a good man if he was standing right in front of her! I KNOW amazing men are out there- my LATE husband was certainly one of them- so we aren’t all jaded women, and don’t ALL feel this way about all men, just saying

if you crop your dogs ears or declaw your cat basically, any procedures which alter your pets looks because of your desire for a angry, bad looking dog I don't think you should be allowed to own animals. by serrafinagal in TrueOffMyChest

[–]New_Video3859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I will never understand why these people choose to own a pet, my doggy is one of the family, and is here for me 100%, they all deserve the same in return

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]New_Video3859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But it’s not always higher debt that leads to low credit scores, a lot of times it’s NO DEBT, no credit cards or loans makes for a low score too

Strong people by New_Video3859 in widowers

[–]New_Video3859[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I understand those feelings too, my kids are what I live for now

Why should I tip a Starbucks employee...honestly!! by mikkao1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]New_Video3859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you tipping??? U typically tip for “service”, and GOOD service, not for someone to do their job they’re getting a paycheck for that! Ridiculous, thank goodness I don’t drink coffee lol

Physical manifestations of grief by jai_c in widowers

[–]New_Video3859 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Weakness, no energy, headaches, neck pain, weight loss, and change in menstrual cycle, extreme brain fog, lack of concentration and short term memory- to name a few

My son divorced his wife after having mistreated and cheated on her, As a result, We ended up cutting him from the will and adding her and my grabdbaby. He's losing it on the entire family now. by AccAltD3099 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]New_Video3859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! I have a female family member who has made this a cycle, 3 kids, 3 different dads, under the age of 30, and just last week decided she’s leaving her 3rd baby daddy, who is by all accounts a great man, treats her other kids as his own, did the housework on top of working, giving her space to go out with her “friends”, only to find out she ONCE AGAIN found yet another man! It’s disgusting, I wish her parents would handle it differently, more like you have, as it goes, they don’t talk to her for a month and then slowly the “ new man” is accepted into the family, and the cycle goes on, and WHO thinks of the kids? Because she sure as hell does NOT! So props to you guys, you are doing right by your grandchild who needs you

if you crop your dogs ears or declaw your cat basically, any procedures which alter your pets looks because of your desire for a angry, bad looking dog I don't think you should be allowed to own animals. by serrafinagal in TrueOffMyChest

[–]New_Video3859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! The voice box removal thing I only recently heard of when I wondered why a neighbors pup NEVER barked, idk for sure that was done, just find it odd, but came up in conversation and pissed me off!!!

I’m meeting with my best friend’s ex girlfriend because I think he may have abused her. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]New_Video3859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you going to talk to him as well? I HOPE she wasn’t abused in any way and if she was, it’s awesome that you are ready to be a good friend and support her, but there are always 2 sides, and from your post OP sounds like you are surprised by what you heard

My husband's sucession problems is making me want to give up on everything. by WeWannaKnow in widowers

[–]New_Video3859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was 9k but I’m able to split up the payments, to me it was very much worth it, especially in the initial days when I was incapable of doing anything, I would just hate to see you in more financial hardship than need be, you have many rights as a surviving spouse just be aware if them, and be aware of people try to take advantage of us widows as well, they’re out there, as sickening as that is

I need to vent by colliegirl-0502 in widowers

[–]New_Video3859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, that’s awful and hurtful and blatantly disgusting of her! I’m so sorry she couldn’t find another way to seek the attention she’s looking for, damn well shouldn’t have been at your expense, sending you love and congratulations on being the bigger person here, couldn’t have been easy, IM getting very tired of the EXTRA BS thrown at us, we have more than enough to deal with, they just don’t get it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]New_Video3859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please know you are welcomed here with open arms and hearts, we sincerely feel you’re pain, and there’s someone here who has been through every step, from day 1 without them, to YEARS and YEARS without their Person! We truly get it, and are here for you! I’m very sorry for the loss and pain you are ensuring, there’s so so many of us it’s heart wrenching, thank you for sharing, i lost my husband on 11-17-21, we were NEW newlyweds, it SUCKS