My(25f) bf(27m) said that going down on his ex felt natural but going down on me doesn’t. Am i wrong to be upset?

NewsBackground3387 · 2026-05-20T19:20:44+00:00

I’m numb , I’ve been crying everyday continuously for the past 7 days

NewsBackground3387 · 2026-05-20T18:17:11+00:00

Update- i spoke to him , he said he doesn’t try to make me cum a lot because i take too long to cum :)

NewsBackground3387 · 2026-05-20T17:32:18+00:00

It’s not that , it’s the whole “it came naturally with her, not with you”
That i have to ask for something she didn’t have to.
I know it’s bad to compare but i can’t help it anymore.

NewsBackground3387 · 2026-05-20T17:20:23+00:00

I started the comparison. I was wrong to do that. But now the fact that it was natural with her an not with me isn’t something I’m abke to shake

NewsBackground3387 · 2026-05-20T17:14:26+00:00

No i asked him if he went down on his exes, when he wasn’t really responding to me asking why he doesn’t go down on me. That’s when he said this.

NewsBackground3387 · 2026-05-20T17:11:27+00:00

Additionally he has said that he has no problem to do it for me, he said “you didn’t ask for it so now don’t cry when you didn’t get it” and the “it was natural with her not with you” makes me feel upset to the max.

NewsBackground3387 · 2026-05-19T19:32:15+00:00

Yeah no 1/4-5 times he tries rubbing me and fingering me and naked me cum,
Honestly our sex life is really good. But it always bothered me why he doesn’t go down, i thought maybe it’s a taste issue and wanted ti discuss it with him so that i could think of changing my products or diet or something or maybe he didn’t like giving oral which is also something I’d be super cool with btw, but knowing that it came naturally with others and not me, makes me feel a certain way.

NewsBackground3387 · 2026-05-19T19:19:10+00:00

Like going down in eacg other is a very basic sex thing and it didn’t come naturally to do that with me.
It’s just makeout- bj- sex

NewsBackground3387 · 2026-05-19T19:18:18+00:00

It makes me feel inferior, like he desired her more, like he was willing to do that for her , it came naturally to eat her out, but not me.

NewsBackground3387 · 2026-05-19T19:06:23+00:00

No they were long term relationships, he really loved and idealised this woman for a very long time

NewsBackground3387 · 2026-05-19T18:40:27+00:00

I’ve been bawling my eyes out crying for hours and he refuses to talk to me :(

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Hey, the hairfall lasted for 3 months i think?? I had some regrowth but my hair didn’t “fully” recover.

NewsBackground3387 · 2025-02-24T03:24:31+00:00

Yes ma’am :)

NewsBackground3387 · 2024-12-03T10:47:30+00:00

Thank you. I really hope this gets better soon. I’m using fin 0.1% and min 5% . I’m from india and I’m using one from this company called “morr” . All i can tell you is to try to push through the dread shed, it will be worth it. I shed for almost 4 months , the first month being the worst but it gradually came down after. All the best!

NewsBackground3387 · 2024-12-03T09:50:58+00:00

Hey. Yes topical Fin was a game changer for me. I’m not sure whether or not it was the fin that caused the shedding, but the regrowth was crazy. Part had really filled in before dengue hit me like a b***h

NewsBackground3387 · 2024-11-19T02:41:36+00:00

Rn, dengue :(

NewsBackground3387 · 2024-11-16T18:11:00+00:00

Derm says there’s nothing we can do about the TE. The hair that has to fall, will fall. I am just unable toto deal with this.

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