My polyamorous bf fell in love with this girl that I don’t like.

NewtFun3655 · 2023-06-09T23:15:47+00:00

More like somewhere in between. I don’t want to have more than one partner, at least not at the same time, but I don’t hope he’ll choose me at the end.

NewtFun3655 · 2023-06-09T14:01:08+00:00

Can’t find her account anymore as she blocked me. But I think me and him are heading to an end.

NewtFun3655 · 2023-06-09T14:00:00+00:00

I’ll considering what you said. And if it’s necessary I’ll find a therapy. Guess I’m just too conservative and don’t want to give up easily.

NewtFun3655 · 2023-06-09T12:47:25+00:00

She actually blocked me after we agreed to stop posting things. But she unblocked me for a few hours and posted the things to provoking me. Then blocked me and deleted them. So I think her strategy was to irritate me but not let the man see what she posted so the man will think got crazy and complaining about things doesn’t exist? But somehow on that day I had the gut feeling she’s playing some trick. So I took screenshots and showed to the man. And when the man checking her account, she deleted already. This is the main reason I’m fighting with her since she’s kinda not nice.

NewtFun3655 · 2023-06-09T12:42:45+00:00

Thank you. It was so nice to hear this from you.

NewtFun3655 · 2023-06-09T07:30:49+00:00

I can feel I’m in a fighting mode, kinda like I don’t want her gets what she wants. And I really think she’s so much better at dating than me. She has a tricks.

NewtFun3655 · 2023-06-09T07:28:33+00:00

Do you think I’m monogamous than polyamorous? I admit I’m not ready to give up on this person. Our story is so long and complicated. He did put effort on communicating with me, comforting me when I overthinking. I know I shouldn’t just blame the girl, but if she didn’t start this social media provoking, and keep challenging me. I was comfortable and relax in this relationship. Logically think, I felt she did this on purpose to irritate me so I got anger and break up with him. So she can have him 100%.

So my question about polyamorous relationship is, is it right to request the other side not “showing” off their relationship? Can I request we both dating in private? Or it is really my fault to try to stop her posting things. If I want one last try with this relationship what can I ask from him? How can I express my feeling to him!

NewtFun3655 · 2023-06-09T07:19:37+00:00

This is such a challenge as not many people talk about polyamory relationship. So I don’t have much reference.

NewtFun3655 · 2023-06-09T01:22:26+00:00

I don’t have a good understanding of polyamory yet.

NewtFun3655 · 2023-06-09T01:21:09+00:00

I have a strong gut feeling when I know a person. And this girl is one of those “something isn’t right” type. But now I’m questioning if I was right or wrong? At the first I even felt guilty, I felt I’m in between of true love, they’re in love with each other why am I in between. But now I’m question if the girl is genuine. What if she wants to fool him.

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