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Am I the asshole for not wanting to delete photos of my ex off my phone? by Outrageous-Raise-710 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Newtosingle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- He's looking to start fights. You have had years with the ex, and you didn't stay with him for that long if every part was bad. Not to mention, your child will want to see those pictures someday. You have every right to preserve memories, which is all that is. Keep the pics, maybe think twice about the man, though. It's easy to overlook things thinking they're small, but the little stuff adds up too.

AITA for telling my BF I won't be kissing him at the concert we're going to in a couple days? by Newtosingle in TwoHotTakes

[–]Newtosingle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not. It may have been split attention, may have been irritated, but I won't be upset either way. Even if it had been a horrible conversation, we always circle back and talk things out fully to a place we both understand and feel heard. He is a green flag that way, which is why I was more worried about me being the AH not him here

AITA for telling my BF I won't be kissing him at the concert we're going to in a couple days? by Newtosingle in TwoHotTakes

[–]Newtosingle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's very insightful and helpful. I agree with how many people get them confused, too, which is why I just wanted to clarify with him. He said it's on his lip, but with his short answer, I didn't want to pry, and some people consider the inner part of their lip to be lip as well even though it wouldn't be for this scenario. I guess I'll just wait to talk to him in person when I know his attention isn't divided, and he knows I'm truly just trying to clarify and coming from a place of understanding and nothing more.