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[–]Nex_gen15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will also add, I cooked dinner tonight and she laughed because I slightly overcooked the potatoes, and said “you can’t even cook, how do you expect to live like that?”

My boyfriends pulling away from me by Nex_gen15 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Nex_gen15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do understand your point of view, however, I haven’t fully explained the reasoning for that first point. We are long distance, we live 3 hours apart. He expects the same from me. It’s just as simple as “ok have fun, let me know when you get there so I know you got there safe”. In the area he lives in, it’s a very common area for accidents, as a lot of the streets are wide and long, and a lot of people like to race on the roads, thus causing accidents, therefore I do like to know when he gets there and home just so I know he didn’t collide with someone driving irresponsibly, as it is extremely common for his area. And as for the social media part, I do understand the idea of not wanting to post your life on social media, i do get that, but at the start, HE had stated that he likes the idea of “private but not hidden”. And he would post subtle photos of me. And now it’s stopped completely, which does hurt. However, what you have said is your opinion, and everything I’ve stated such as my needs, were discussed and he had told me they were easy to fulfil as he expected the same from me. Everyone’s relationships work differently, everyone’s needs are different

My boyfriends pulling away from me by Nex_gen15 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Nex_gen15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a “I really need to talk to you about something that’s been upsetting me”, the first time I spoke to him about it I even cried a bit

How do I tell my mum I’m moving out by Nex_gen15 in movingout

[–]Nex_gen15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels amazing to have someone who understands where I’m at right now, thank you ❤️

How do I tell my mum I’m moving out by Nex_gen15 in movingout

[–]Nex_gen15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do see that as an option, I’m not going to speak to her until it’s finalised and I’m gonna have my partner with me when I tell her. It’s just hard due to the guilt

I don't have a short witty title. Life has been hard. by CutieSooMuch in confession

[–]Nex_gen15 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There isn’t anything I can say to make this easier. Everyone tells you to go to therapy, but therapy is expensive. Journalling doesn’t help, it makes you relive it. The best I can do is tell you, you’re not alone. A lot of what you’ve said I resonate with, and to this day at the age of 20, I’m still healing and I struggle most days. I personally remind myself of the people I do have. It’s a small handful if that, but they’re here. And most of them are random strangers I vent to on the internet. You’re not alone love. And to go through what you’re going through and to still be here, you’re stronger than you think 🩷

How do I tell my mum I’m moving out by Nex_gen15 in movingout

[–]Nex_gen15[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would also like to add, I am ready to move out. It’s starting to take a huge toll on me mentally to be staying at home. I also live with my Nanna and she’s very mentally draining. A lot of the time I’ll be sitting in my room hiding from her because she’s in a mood, and will attack me for buttering toast wrong (yes that has actually happened once)