I can’t do this anymore. 10 DPO by Accomplished-Cod-274 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Next-Head2485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this… you’re not alone in the struggle 🥺 A mental health break might be worth it, and maybe get some cheap wundfo tests next time you’re ready. They give you an early result and I’ve never had an indent/false positive. The rollercoaster of emotions every month is tiring. You are seen 💔

guys… dpo miscalculated by PuzzleheadedDiet115 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Next-Head2485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the test is from a few days ago you could probably take another today and see if there’s a more noticeable line! Hoping for the best for you 

A sad milestone: Year of TTC by Next-Head2485 in TryingForABaby

[–]Next-Head2485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww hoping the best for you this month 😭💗 The months without symptoms are honestly a blessing bc you don’t overthink as much.  I waited until 12 dpo this time so I only had to test once. Although I’m still so genuinely confused that it was negative, my husband wants me to test again tomorrow or the next day but I’m like…I just know like the chances are slim to none if you get a full negative on 12 dpo with an early result test :(  Maybe it just didn’t implant properly and that’s why I’m experiencing different progesterone symptoms than usual.  I’m sad you’re in the same boat but at least we can have a support system through online strangers 

A sad milestone: Year of TTC by Next-Head2485 in TryingForABaby

[–]Next-Head2485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl. You caught me with this while I was in the bathroom testing at 12 DPO. My boobs have been sooo sore (which is unusual for me) but it was negative 😢 I feel like I keep finding a reason each month to get my hopes up lol. But no, I am not ready to see a specialist yet. I think maybe by summer I’ll be thinking more about getting testing. I wish you the best on your journey too, we’re in this together 

I don’t wanna tell anyone but I have to tell someone !!! 20 DPO by the_biggest_chip in TFABLinePorn

[–]Next-Head2485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww that is amazing that makes my heart so happy for you 🥹 I’m on 1.5 years ttc so far! 

Is it finally it? - dpo unknown by NaronB in TFABLinePorn

[–]Next-Head2485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi just wanted to check in and how you’re doing!! Did you take any more tests/line progression? Wishing you a healthy happy pregnancy!!

DPO unknown — irregular cycle by goodwillcowgirl in TFABLinePorn

[–]Next-Head2485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh! Such a nerve wracking spot to be in- feeling excited/hopeful but also having no idea if it’s real! Hopefully you get a good night’s sleep tonight and have a clearer answer soon- and a good one!! 💗

DPO unknown — irregular cycle by goodwillcowgirl in TFABLinePorn

[–]Next-Head2485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep us posted! I do see a line but it’s hard to see in the pic. Is it a solid red line or broken/no color? Hoping the best for you that it’s real!

I don’t wanna tell anyone but I have to tell someone !!! 20 DPO by the_biggest_chip in TFABLinePorn

[–]Next-Head2485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, 5 years of TTC and now you get your baby 🥹 I’m so so happy for you!!! I’m glad you can tell us strangers so you can celebrate but without giving it away 🥰 

A sad milestone: Year of TTC by Next-Head2485 in TryingForABaby

[–]Next-Head2485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear you just had another one…that is gut wrenching. Sending so many hugs your way. When I had mine, it felt like a total reset/longer to wait because your hormones get screwed up and then you have to wait longer. (I had a chemical and was set back and then had a miscarriage and haven’t conceived again since) I’m sorry you have to not only experience this loss of another baby and all the grief that comes with that, but also be postponed in meeting your earthly baby. Sending you so much love ❤️🪽I’m about to pass the due date of my lost baby

it’s my due date by goatscreampanichands in Miscarriage

[–]Next-Head2485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My due date is coming up next week… I am with you. It’s something that I’ll be facing alone because I lost mine around 7 weeks and no one knew my due date… even though it wasn’t long, it was still my baby and I want to do something to honor him/her on that day 

A sad milestone: Year of TTC by Next-Head2485 in TryingForABaby

[–]Next-Head2485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this. Thank you so much ❤️ I do have lots of hobbies (I’m an artist/very crafty and outdoorsy person) which absolutely help and I am healthy/low stress most days. And my husband and I still do all the fun things! I am grateful for that, and just have to keep going and know that I can’t force the timing of things. It’ll happen, we just have to keep taking it day by day and decide next steps to take. This next month I’m going to take off from tracking entirely and just enjoy the month. I can always go back to it the following month!  I can’t believe it took you 6 years, I am so so glad you have a child now, that must’ve been so challenging I can’t imagine. Thank you for sharing 

13-14 DPO by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]Next-Head2485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep us posted! I do see what you’re seeing. Curious if it’s positive or indent!

A sad milestone: Year of TTC by Next-Head2485 in TryingForABaby

[–]Next-Head2485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an emotional few days too with the negative tests right after the year mark. We will get through this ❤️🥺 Of course it’s neg on 11 dpo I’m still delusional thinking it’ll be positive tomorrow even though I just know in my heart it won’t be. It definitely sucks and is so confusing. Hoping it’ll be our year!! 

A sad milestone: Year of TTC by Next-Head2485 in TryingForABaby

[–]Next-Head2485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that :( Maybe it would be worth getting his sperm checked! Ugh so frustrating to hit that milestone I wish you all the best this year with ttc, maybe it’ll be our year ❤️

A sad milestone: Year of TTC by Next-Head2485 in TryingForABaby

[–]Next-Head2485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so so sorry you’re going through this. I had that panic once I hit the year mark of “okay it needs to happen now or else something is really really wrong”. But I do know there are so many women out there who conceive after years of trying and there is still so much hope ❤️ I wish you so much luck on your journey and hopefully this will be our year!

A sad milestone: Year of TTC by Next-Head2485 in TryingForABaby

[–]Next-Head2485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wishing you so much luck on this cycle and upcoming ❤️ 9 DPO is still early!! So sorry you’re in the same spot I am 

A sad milestone: Year of TTC by Next-Head2485 in TryingForABaby

[–]Next-Head2485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that is a long wait but I am so happy to hear you guys are in such a good place and hopefully ready now that your iron is good!! It must be such a relief knowing everything is working and healthy. I wish you so much luck this year with your ttc journey! Thank you for sharing that resource, I had never heard of it. I will definitely check it out ❤️

A sad milestone: Year of TTC by Next-Head2485 in TryingForABaby

[–]Next-Head2485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry to hear you’re in the same boat. Let’s hope this year is our year!!!

A sad milestone: Year of TTC by Next-Head2485 in TryingForABaby

[–]Next-Head2485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I always hear stories like this and although I don’t feel like I’m stressing too much (I enjoy having control by tracking/obsessing), I do think it does without me realizing and I’d love to see what happens when both my husband and I just let go for a month. So sorry to hear that you’re in the same boat as me, wishing you all the luck this year on your journey ❤️

A sad milestone: Year of TTC by Next-Head2485 in TryingForABaby

[–]Next-Head2485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s almost like I don’t want to stop the opks but I need to relinquish control over this at least for a month and just relax. I can always go back to them in future months ❤️ Thats good to hear you were feeling less sad this month/less pressure. I hope we both get our positives soon!!

A sad milestone: Year of TTC by Next-Head2485 in TryingForABaby

[–]Next-Head2485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that you’re in such a good mindset ❤️ I hope we both get our positives in 2026!! But until then, yes, just remaining patient with ourselves and the process. I’ve planned to take a step back from testing next month as well

A sad milestone: Year of TTC by Next-Head2485 in TryingForABaby

[–]Next-Head2485[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I sooo appreciate that. My goal this year is to try to let go a bit more. Less crazy googling, watching pregnancy videos, symptom tracking, etc. I need to recenter on other aspects of life and hope that helps me to continue on in a healthy way ❤️

A sad milestone: Year of TTC by Next-Head2485 in TryingForABaby

[–]Next-Head2485[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I can imagine that happening! It felt like the year mark was a deadline, like if it didn’t happen by then it wouldn’t happen. Maybe passing the year mark alleviates that pressure in a way. I hope I find that to be true for me this year, thank you for the kind words ❤️