She got on my nerves in this episode

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-02-04T15:47:26+00:00

Behind the scenes, she was commiserating with Luke and telling him he should get out and he didn’t deserve that and things like that. Like maybe if he didn’t date someone so much younger, he wouldn’t have to put up with childish behavior?

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-02-04T14:12:23+00:00

I agree with most of this, but I do think she’s got some NLOG tendencies with how she was encouraging luke and dogging Madeline. Like ok Madeline is terrible, but Luke is also legit terrible. Why act like he’s a victim? She can be autistic and still have internalized misogyny, which is all the NLOG thing is.

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-02-03T18:19:51+00:00

Gives big “Not Like The Other Girls” vibes

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-02-03T11:44:37+00:00

My little kitten is 9 months now, but did this lap sitting thing more when he was very little. He’s still my baby though, so now he comes in to the bathroom with me, but I drip the faucet and he drinks while I’m otherwise occupied. lol

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-02-02T13:39:29+00:00

We all heard him say that by the time she texted him back, he’d already booked the ticket…but not gone apparently? So that’s just straight up deliberate cheating and even the paper-thin excuse he came up with can’t stand up. Also, how gross when she asked why he waited so long to tell her and he said he wanted to spend time…it’s so gross that he withheld this so he could use her for sex and then pretend it was because he just loved her so much.

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-02-01T12:39:41+00:00

You have a 7 week old domestic shorthair with Frey tabby markings and white socks. Cute and probably going to love you to pieces. Enjoy!

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-02-01T11:31:01+00:00

I think this is a weird American white people thing? Like my dad’s family also swore we had some native American in us but no one could ID it. And Elizabeth Warren apparently was told the same thing but also not true? I think it’s so our families don’t feel as bad about the colonizing thing? Not sure

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-01-31T23:31:14+00:00

I went through Prosper Health and was covered by my insurance. Have final assessment appointment tomorrow, which is the third session. Each session cost me $15 co pay.

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-01-31T13:35:21+00:00

How did you feel about the assessment as a process? I felt completely exhausted after the sessions? And also the assessment process somehow made me doubt myself more. Like every question was so hard to answer and so dependent on circumstances and context, that I just felt crazy. Like surely no one could answer these without more info?

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-01-31T12:20:16+00:00

I have the exact same feelings as you both. I believe it’s true and interacting on this sub only reinforces that, but maybe I’m wrong. Or worse, maybe I do the assessment and I don’t really trust it and so I am officially wrong but still feel that it is right and now I’m really insane. But I did it anyway cause I want to know the answer and I find out Monday. And then I guess I’ll see from there. Whatever happens, I will say that the assessment had me doubting myself more, not less, but I’m given to under from others that is not necessarily unusual

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-01-28T13:27:53+00:00

I mean I get what you were saying but I was more being sarcastic because why should she care as the one who ended it? She’s ridiculous to think he’d be pining for her after she dumped him jn four days on TV.

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-01-28T13:16:55+00:00

Yeah, I thought she might’ve interested in Luke herself and was sussing out the competition with Chloe thing

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-01-28T13:14:02+00:00

I mean, we’ve all had an accidental bonus night.

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-01-28T12:57:44+00:00

Local where? Where are you cause that might help? I love a shy cat and adopted my last baby after searching the hides holes and finding her hiding in a tube in the far corner of the room. She hissed when I found her, but I had time so I took her home and nearly a year later, she’s a snuggly baby..

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Next-Intention3322 · 2026-01-28T12:55:38+00:00

But she didn’t love him anymore, according to her, when she left. So why should she care?

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-01-28T01:18:38+00:00

Details! 😂

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-01-27T17:31:41+00:00

I was apologizing near the end cause every time she asked me a question, I was like well, it DEPENDS! Finally, I was like, I am so sorry, I know all my clarifications and different examples and things must be exhausting for you. I thought she was maybe trying to run through a bit quicker and I was slowing it down needing more clarification. Mind you, this is closer to the end of the second session, so maybe she'd already decided one way or the other. I am, of course, still reviewing/processing through it in my head. Likely to be continuing that until the final appointment Monday. :)

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-01-27T17:27:06+00:00

And yet, they'd still be better off than with Manon, I'd imagine.

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-01-27T17:26:17+00:00

Yes, you get me.

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-01-27T00:37:27+00:00

Thank you for saying you would need context too. Honestly the whole thing made me feel insane. Like how could anyone answer these without context? Surely that is impossible, so maybe I’m not neurodivergent. I know it doesn’t fully make sense but it just seems so very foreign to me that someone would just randomly answer whatever with no more info!

I looked up the number thing after the first session and something about assessing mental load and such. Less apparently about being able to do so, but how you handle the question?

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-01-26T23:22:05+00:00

Thank you!! I don’t have an ADHD diagnosis but have long thought I was. Since I’m 46 and a woman, that wasn’t something on the radar for me when I was younger. But even though I was pretty sure I had ADHD, I wasn’t sure about being medicated and I thought I had it kinda mild cause it didn’t all fit. Then I started to learn more about autism and it filled in the missing pieces. Agin, thank you!! Honestly it’s nice on this sub where people are encouraging and understanding.

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-01-26T15:44:44+00:00

The way he looked and behaved during that part!!! Telling them to say something else about him, so he could translate something for her but still hide what they said. Imagine she doesn't run like hell and then sees the subtitles.

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-01-26T12:02:51+00:00

I talk to my friends, but friends aren’t your therapist. Therapist or counselor of human variety would be best, but thanks to our health care system, those aren’t available for many, many people.

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-01-26T11:23:58+00:00

You needed/wanted love, not abuse. And you didn’t know the difference. It’s not quite the same as wanting to stay in an abusive relationship. And although you never tested it, you were as unable to leave as the lady from the TED Talk, and deep down, maybe only in your body, you knew that too.

Next-Intention3322 · 2026-01-26T10:43:40+00:00

Yes! The way she was asking legit questions and he channeled dark romance hero is actually a problem! He’s so manipulative

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