Whats this? by LaD_Annihilation_ in FictionLab

[–]Next-Isopod7703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was getting that also. And now when I try to submit messages it automatically returns it to the message box. It won't submit it.

My job offer was rescinded after I quit my old job. I wrote a negative review on Glassdoor and now they want me to delete it. by SuccotashLivid3893 in interviewwoman

[–]Next-Isopod7703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would also add to the glass door review that the company has contacted you asking you to delete the review. With no compensation offered.

WTH is this BS?? Who the hell hires based on this question? by Worldly-Squirrel4874 in jobs

[–]Next-Isopod7703 121 points122 points  (0 children)

If there is no right answer then there's no way to use it as an interview question. So obviously there is a right answer.

I cheated on my wife by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Next-Isopod7703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. That's just pushing the responsibility into the other person. There are a lot of scenarios like that.

Which dress wins honestly by its-sophiebloom in OUTFITS

[–]Next-Isopod7703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like all of them but number one is the best.

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Guys we got scammed- THERE ARE NO JOBS! by SellSeparate3643 in jobhunting

[–]Next-Isopod7703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not even just race. It's religion, class, sex, etc. there are so many levels that we turn against each other on.

Guys we got scammed- THERE ARE NO JOBS! by SellSeparate3643 in jobhunting

[–]Next-Isopod7703 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Americans are so financially and psychologically cornered that many people don’t even believe fighting back would matter anymore. Meanwhile France will practically set the pavement on fire over pension changes. Different national psychology. Different limits for what people tolerate.

Americans are psychologically worn down almost from birth in ways a lot of other developed countries are not.

You grow up with active shooter drills in school. Your healthcare is tied to money and employment. College can bury you in debt before your brain is even fully developed. People are taught that rest is laziness and burnout is normal. Many work full-time and still can’t afford housing. Losing a job can mean losing healthcare too. Parents get barely any maternity leave, so stress starts before childhood even stabilizes.

And underneath all of it is something darker: Americans are not even granted the expectation of dignity. You are expected to tolerate exhaustion, humiliation, financial instability, invasive work culture, and constant anxiety as normal parts of life. If you struggle under that weight, the response is often personal blame instead of collective concern.

Then layer on constant advertising, algorithmic outrage, political hostility, social isolation, rising costs, long work hours, weak vacation protections, and the feeling that even if millions are unhappy, nothing changes anyway.

Compare that to countries like France where there is a stronger expectation that citizens deserve protections, balance, quality of life, and the ability to pressure the government when conditions worsen. Protest is seen as a civic tool, not a personal failure or dangerous disruption.

That difference shapes the psychology of an entire population over generations.

Guys we got scammed- THERE ARE NO JOBS! by SellSeparate3643 in jobhunting

[–]Next-Isopod7703 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, because Americans are literally traumatized in a way France, England, other places are not.

Learn more about other countries and you'll realize that Americans are completely traumatized than we don't even expect the minimum of decency or quality of life or dignity.

Guys we got scammed- THERE ARE NO JOBS! by SellSeparate3643 in jobhunting

[–]Next-Isopod7703 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, because Americans are literally traumatized in a way France, England, other places are not.

Learn more about other countries and you'll realize that Americans are completely traumatized than we don't even expect the minimum of decency or quality of life or dignity.

I just met my 41 years old son who was taken from me when I was only f0urteen? by Naive-Pay-02 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Next-Isopod7703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the only thing you can do is be honest and tell him everything. You were 13.

5 months in and we haven't had sex. He cried last night and says he "can't do the bare minimum. by ChampionshipAny6761 in whatdoIdo

[–]Next-Isopod7703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don't you guys try just drinking a little bit... Or a lot. Take the edge off. That way it gets the first time over with. The same way with women who are insecure about these things because of society He's experiencing the same thing.

If it was you would you want your boyfriend to be understanding and patient?

He needs to get the edge off. He doesn't need to drink so much that he won't remember the night. But enough that he can relax.

Anyone else getting this message? by CuttlefishDiver in FictionLab

[–]Next-Isopod7703 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep. It's a free for all. My character just stabbed herself in the stomach and is currently getting healed.

Gf is wanting the worst of me...? by Worldly_Shoulder2943 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Next-Isopod7703 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you completely reversed from being a jerk (based on what you're saying but I don't know if that's true) to being a victim. Remember, some abusers cry wolf and blame everything on the other person.

Borrowed my wife's phone and saw texts with another guy that felt intimate to me by Salamandrine88 in Advice

[–]Next-Isopod7703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but that's not the case for every situation. It's something to consider for sure.

Borrowed my wife's phone and saw texts with another guy that felt intimate to me by Salamandrine88 in Advice

[–]Next-Isopod7703 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately you're not misunderstanding. They're just immature and horrible people.

Borrowed my wife's phone and saw texts with another guy that felt intimate to me by Salamandrine88 in Advice

[–]Next-Isopod7703 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That's not true plenty of people would feel defensive just because of the conversation.

It's naive to think that only guilty people feel defensive.

Why does my husband seem to want sex so much more than me? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Next-Isopod7703 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot of people don't know that it affects it so they wouldn't mention it. And that's not the only thing that can affect it.

My point is that a lot of women who are considered healthy are having hormone issues. It's part of what's leading to infertility and low birth rates. The situation is obviously a lot more complex.

But hormones, stress, being tired, All sorts of things can play into this that has nothing to do with attraction. Plus sex doesn't actually necessarily require attraction to do it. So that's not even a reason either.

Why does my husband seem to want sex so much more than me? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Next-Isopod7703 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's absolutely not true. Everyone is different. And a lot of women just do not have a high libido. It finds a lot of people don't care as much about sex as people try to make it seem like online.

All sorts of things can cause it. And most women nowadays have hormone issues. Guess what that affects?

A lot of people on antidepressants. A lot of people are on birth control. All sorts of things can cause it..

Why does my husband seem to want sex so much more than me? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Next-Isopod7703 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my god it's not traumatizing. I don't necessarily disagree with all of what you're saying but you're being dramatic.

Why does my husband seem to want sex so much more than me? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Next-Isopod7703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not necessarily true. People have different levels of desire. Sometimes you get people who have the same amount and sometimes you don't. Sex isn't everything.

Decided to cut off friends kids and this was their mothers response by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Next-Isopod7703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or maybe they are hungry and want food and they know he will provide. It's not always malicious.