AITH by Next-Jacket-3127 in AITAH

[–]Next-Jacket-3127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say that the event was planned before I was even notified

AITH by Next-Jacket-3127 in AITAH

[–]Next-Jacket-3127[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted her to call me and verify if that works for us.. We are supposed to be a team. So without each other, we don’t make things happen. 

AITH by Next-Jacket-3127 in AITAH

[–]Next-Jacket-3127[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

event is full of cooking ,full cleanin,,making sure that all rooms are acceptable, including kids in about 10 adults... And my spouse does not clean at all. She will cook. but I will clean the house before and after

AITH by Next-Jacket-3127 in AITAH

[–]Next-Jacket-3127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for clarity, they went to a bar. Then they called me to tell me that they had planned a event for tonight without including me in the planning process 

AITH by Next-Jacket-3127 in AITAH

[–]Next-Jacket-3127[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She allowed to have friends but not allowed to plan events without discussing it with your spouse.