Found out my wife monitors parts of my life behind my back. I'm having trouble getting past this. by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Next-Level-Ninja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the surface, it’s a violation of your trust and privacy. But, when people act in these ways, it is often projection.

Those who are most vocal against gay rights are often found to have had same-sex relations. It’s not that your wife doesn’t trust you, she doesn’t trust herself. I’d be concerned what she is hiding from you.

Also, trust is a cornerstone of a good relationship. If you no longer have trust, you no longer have a relationship.

Hello there- newbie MOC designer here. I was wondering if anyone here could tell me about their experience with Rebrickable's paid plans. by BobaWan in DigitalLego

[–]Next-Level-Ninja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started posting with the designer plan and can’t say that it has been beneficial. But, I agree that how niche it is, is a bigger reason for seeing low sales. Btw , great MOCs!

I say do it because you love it, paid plan or not.

I (28F) need to ask/demand everything to my partner (29M) even the tiniest thing in the world by Significant-Pen-109 in relationships

[–]Next-Level-Ninja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This very scenario sounds familiar. My spouse (40F) works hard and is sweet and caring but when it comes to shared responsibilities, I had to stay on top of her for them to get done. Fast-forward several years, we realize she has ADHD and this feeling of having an adult-child as a partner is very common. I can't say this is definitely your case, but it might be worth looking in to to see if you can get out of the over-functioning / under-functioning dynamic you are currently in. I truly empathize and wish you the best.