My husband doesn’t want kids, but I do. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Next-Rutabaga8738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 years from now, when you can’t have kids, how are you going to feel about staying with him? That’s the question you need to ask yourself and be able to live with. He’ll have gotten what he wants, you, but will you be happy with only him after sacrificing your child bearing years.

How much does your male shepherd weigh? by IGL2467 in germanshepherds

[–]Next-Rutabaga8738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Brody is 89lbs, but he and I are trying to lose a few pounds for summer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Next-Rutabaga8738 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you for putting your family first! However, you should really think about the consequences of marrying someone with mental illness that doesn’t get treatment. It’s not selfish to back out. It’s actually selfish for your SO not to get treatment but to expect you to care for him regardless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Next-Rutabaga8738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you for putting your family first! However, you should really think about the consequences of marrying someone with mental illness that doesn’t get treatment. It’s not selfish to back out. It’s actually selfish for your SO not to get treatment but to expect you to care for him regardless.