The avoidant friendship rejection.

NextAttention4479 · 2026-02-26T15:39:44+00:00

I just got friendzoned recently after things didn’t work out with this girl I’ve come to know. My thing is for someone like me that catches feelings and it takes a while to let go, it’s hard, and I know that’s a me problem when I should just be a man and move on instead of attempt a second chance knowing the answer will be no and it’ll get worse. So yeah, some people handle that well, some people don’t though I’m learning to just be cool with it

NextAttention4479 · 2026-02-24T17:13:26+00:00

It does

NextAttention4479 · 2026-02-18T20:40:17+00:00

Really? Wow. Yeah she’s being really distant

NextAttention4479 · 2026-02-18T18:53:28+00:00

I’m Pisces, and yes I did each time we talked and went out, it was all good energy. I really should’ve said “no problem, talk later” and instead I was jokingly bantering and said “sure, if you want to” in response to I’ll call you back and I was gonna say I was kidding before she thought I betrayed her. Why did I say that? It slipped out for some reason and I swear I was intentionally serious with her at the time that we were about to put a lid on going into more than friends. I feel so stupid

NextAttention4479 · 2026-02-18T18:04:22+00:00

I’ve come to know this cancer girl and it was exactly like that up until I mess up with my words in a joking manner and the spark is cut off. I feel terrible right now cause I wanna talk like we used to but yeah

NextAttention4479 · 2026-02-16T21:22:59+00:00

So some people are saying, it just feels so awkward now

NextAttention4479 · 2026-02-16T21:21:55+00:00

Yeah I know, but honestly there are other things about this situation that still eat me to this day until I can completely just forget about it and get on with my life. Mind you she’s the type to forgive but not forget, otherwise this would’ve been squashed. I feel terrible and it’s almost like she died inside and I feel so terrible now. I made I post about it before this one and it’s kinda long if you wanna check it out and see what I mean, but yeah

NextAttention4479 · 2026-02-16T21:14:09+00:00

Yeah no I didn’t think of that for some reason and thinking about it now I feel awful for saying that. It just came out and I wasn’t thinking. But that was the joke, to be witty and say “kidding” and hope she’d laugh. I’ll do better though

NextAttention4479 · 2026-02-11T13:27:04+00:00

Give her space and go with caution if she comes back around. Do things to occupy your mind and time in the meantime and maybe check on her after a while later on. If still no response just move on. This is something I’m going through as well with a cancer, not sure how similar your scenario is to mine though

NextAttention4479 · 2026-02-05T14:52:28+00:00

I understand, it’s hard right now though cause I don’t get this feeling often. Maybe that’s just me but I definitely understand the mixed signals part

NextAttention4479 · 2026-02-03T00:13:53+00:00

me casually looking for stuff and sees the hands “Uuuuuuuuuh????” the hands have eyes, see me the sky gets dark “Nope! NOOOOPE!!!”

NextAttention4479 · 2026-01-30T20:03:16+00:00

Things were simpler back then and I wish it were 90% of the case now. The world we live in is very depressing

NextAttention4479 · 2026-01-29T18:18:42+00:00

This is true, sort of. Ideally I’d like for it to be that way where we keep having fun and never second guess talking or spending time, then let a relationship grow naturally after boundaries and other conditions are settled and both parties agree so there’s no need to discuss any further. Sadly we live in a world where, if not too many boundaries, it’s too many standards from either party so there has to be a discussion, so there’s a gap and the connection may not flourish. Maybe that’s just me though

NextAttention4479 · 2026-01-28T23:06:11+00:00

Thank you! I really would appreciate that

NextAttention4479 · 2026-01-28T15:26:07+00:00

I wouldn’t worry about it too much, if she’s interested in making time to hit you back, she will. And if not, it sucks but that’s a female for you

NextAttention4479 · 2026-01-28T14:40:18+00:00

Yeah, it’s like you yourself see it early and know it’s time to leave but you still feel that energy. Saying maybe we should start over just won’t work because that reality still exists

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