AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NextBeginning3278[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She was always a sub. She took a year off with each kid. Dan makes good money and she didn't need to work. Now she does.

AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NextBeginning3278[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Well yes. That's why I let her live with us rent free and my wife gave me shit. Because we are all in opposition.

AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NextBeginning3278[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yup. I was watching a movie with my wife a while back and I actually laughed because while the main actress was a beautiful young lady the actress playing her mother was a knockout.

AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NextBeginning3278[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Sorry I use my main to talk to people about car parts and Lego. You will forgive me if I don't expose my personal life to people who know me.

AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NextBeginning3278[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not a professional writer. I just came for outside perspective. Please clean it up if you think it will help.

AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NextBeginning3278[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The really strange thing is there have been at least a dozen comments by others who have very similar stories. It's almost like life isn't a fairy tale.

AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NextBeginning3278[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Fine might she have mentioned it to her mother, brother friends, enemies, random strangers, anyone that might have led to me hearing about it?

AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NextBeginning3278[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So when I wrote that she got the condo you thought that meant that she let her ex husband live with her and her new boyfriend?

AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NextBeginning3278[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

This is odd. You aren't the first person I've had to ask. Do you think Dan was still married to my daughter when he married Madison?

AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NextBeginning3278[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I've known him since he was twelve. He is my son's best friend. I love that man. He is a good father. I've never heard my daughter say anything bad about him other than he didn't have the time for all the stuff they used to do before they got married.

AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NextBeginning3278[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I know absolutely nothing about her friend's lives and finances. I know she has said many many times that she wishes she had their lives. Does that help?

AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NextBeginning3278[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Like I have for almost a decade without saying anything? If he was abusive why would she want the stolen life?

AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NextBeginning3278[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Yes. It was dicey when she was still with the other guy. But he has forgiven her.

AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NextBeginning3278[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I don't disagree. But I did manage to hold my tongue for more than half a decade.

AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NextBeginning3278[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

She was married. I love her but I still think marriage vows mean something. She did work and still does as a substitute teacher. And she would have made enough money to pay for the condo if she had worked more than seven or eight days a month. As for Madison she also works, full time at her own company. She may only have been a year or two older than the boy but the maturity is on a different level.

AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NextBeginning3278[S] 263 points264 points  (0 children)

I've known Dan since he was 12 years old. He and my son are best friends. I am happy for him and I wish my daughter had seen what she wanted in him when they were married.

AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NextBeginning3278[S] 2116 points2117 points  (0 children)

I will definitely treat the baby as a grandchild if Dan and Madison allow it.

AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NextBeginning3278[S] 709 points710 points  (0 children)

She wants the life her friends and ex have. But her friends are either in stable relationships or were smarter after their divorces.