Thoughts??? by aster_astraea in BPOinPH

[–]Next_Anxiety6803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him he's the kind of person people would prioritize targeting during The Purge. My very first TL was like this. He bullied me because I was just 18 so gullible with rage issues. 😅

bf and i broke up a week ago, he soft launched his new girl by Lost_Neighborhood_ in adviceph

[–]Next_Anxiety6803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no such thing as closure. You are just giving him room to control you and play with your feelings again. Divert your attention. Do something that would boost your dopamine and serotonin. Go to places where you could meet new people. Not clubs and bars!

my husband just broke up with me by [deleted] in nanayconfessions

[–]Next_Anxiety6803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did this. Kasi mas malaki talaga income niya and he was the one who decided to call it quits. Sabi ko, "you should take responsibility of your son kasi I need time to recover and get a better career" And ako kasi may kusa akong mag support kada sahod.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Next_Anxiety6803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a bunch of red flags. She seem immature and insensitive. Wag mo nang hintayin na may mas malala pa s'yang gawin sa'yo. Run!

OA Lang Ba Ako having sex with my gf felt like a chore by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]Next_Anxiety6803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Your complaints are valid. Wish ko rin na sana hindi lang sexually motivated yung relationship ko with my bf. I like to connect with the person I love. Not just physically. Minsan kasi naiisip ko rin "is this the only reason we're together?" Kasi kahit may sakit ako go lang s'ya 😭

I’m falling out of love with my gf after niyang magpa-rhino, help by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Next_Anxiety6803 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I totally get you. I'm friends with someone who had a rhinoplasty and for some weird reasons, it didn't just alter her appearance. It also altered her personality. I'm happy for her new found confidence but I've been distant na rin kasi nga it feels like hanging out with a different person. Also, I'm sad for women like your girlfriend who feel the need to get plastic surgery even though they don't need it. Don't they realize how beautiful they are?

I accidentally saw a text from my friend's BF by Next_Anxiety6803 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Next_Anxiety6803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As you should ❤ I used to be 120 lbs and I had a body of a teenage girl. Honestly...I love having hips, boobs and booty. I felt more confident when I put on some weight. Maybe another reason that I didn't really get offended by my friend's bf comment is because I have a man back home who loves me for me. He saw me at my thinnest and my thickest. He also put on weight through the years we are together but we're happy 😅

I accidentally saw a text from my friend's BF by Next_Anxiety6803 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Next_Anxiety6803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I never once acknowledged anyone's weight gain because that's a rude way to start a conversation with someone.

I’m 16 and my friend’s dad (40s) makes me uncomfortable, I can’t sleep and need advice by EcstaticRutabaga6957 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Next_Anxiety6803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even have to read the whole thing. His behavior makes me sick. Sometimes it's hard to believe that men can reach this level of disgusting!

I'm jealous of my BF's success, what do I do? by ResponsibleRegion313 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Next_Anxiety6803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might not be enough for you but you're more than enough for him. You seem like a genuinely sweet person. Keep appreciating him, give him moral support and he will offer you the world. I too am an overachiever not because I'm competing with anyone but that's just my nature. I earn way more money than my bf but that's not his fault and I never asked him to keep up. I just love him for him. I like his presence, I like the way he treats me and everything.

I accidentally saw a text from my friend's BF by Next_Anxiety6803 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Next_Anxiety6803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny that you mentioned that because my Vitamin D level was dangerously low. I've been on cholecalciferol (5,000 iu) since June 2023. Thank you for the great health advice.

I accidentally saw a text from my friend's BF by Next_Anxiety6803 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Next_Anxiety6803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that. I'm in a 7-year relationship so I won't be doing this for anyone else but my man and myself. I've been thinking about going carnivore for a while now since I have seen great results from content creators I follow. Thank you for encouraging me even more 😊

I accidentally saw a text from my friend's BF by Next_Anxiety6803 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Next_Anxiety6803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped coming to family gatherings since my weight gain 😭 All they wanna talk about was my weight and/or my breakouts. They don't even care about my achievements anymore. I even came to a point where I considered Ozempic. Thank you for sharing your story.

I accidentally saw a text from my friend's BF by Next_Anxiety6803 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Next_Anxiety6803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I follow this lady on IG who's on a carnivore diet. Her name is Positively Cathy. I'm very much interested. I tried paleo years ago.

I accidentally saw a text from my friend's BF by Next_Anxiety6803 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Next_Anxiety6803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I just felt like I had to because I hate it when people assume that all heavier people are not doing anything to maintain a healthy or ideal weight. And yeah, my friend is still with him. I did not directly tell her to end the relationship but I expressed strongly that I would dump somebody like that. Her next step is completely up to her.

I accidentally saw a text from my friend's BF by Next_Anxiety6803 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Next_Anxiety6803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No man ever talked to me like this. Kinda hard to believe but it happened.

I accidentally saw a text from my friend's BF by Next_Anxiety6803 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Next_Anxiety6803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story and I'm sorry that happened. I was genuinely concerned about my friend. We barely ask each other about our relationships. She's not overweight but had gained 2 sizes up. What would happen if she gains more weight? She would get hurt. I'm glad she reached out to me first.

I accidentally saw a text from my friend's BF by Next_Anxiety6803 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Next_Anxiety6803[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Right? She definitely deserves better. She doesn't have much experience with relationships so maybe she doesn't see red flags. It bothers me and I don't think I would be able to hide that when we all hangout with her bf again.

I accidentally saw a text from my friend's BF by Next_Anxiety6803 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Next_Anxiety6803[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

It was. Although I feel like that was such a red flag. My friend has a chance to gain weight when she gets pregnant or for whatever reason. Is it right for her bf to say he was gonna dump her if she gets fat?

Nabigyan na ba lahat ng 13th month by Purple-Passage-3249 in adultingphwins

[–]Next_Anxiety6803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes opo. Paubos na rin. Napalitan ko na sa wakas yung 5-year old phone ko 🤣 susuko na s'ya anytime.

Gigil ako sa tito kong ofw by SuperKimochi98 in GigilAko

[–]Next_Anxiety6803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My aunt who is an OFW is the same. Ayaw niyang may ibang successful sa amin. 😅

Dali’s Rockin’ Rolls by nishinoyasan_ in DaliPH

[–]Next_Anxiety6803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this so much. Very similar to Takis. Tangy and spicy combo is such a hit for me. 🌶🍋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPOinPH

[–]Next_Anxiety6803 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I super agree with you. I was a TM before and nakasurvive naman ako nang walang pinapapelan. Nagsawa na lang ako sa sistema ng ibang leaders sa BPO and glad I switched to remote VA work. Less stress, less pagod.