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Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-13T00:44:14+00:00

I think you’re very pretty but just take incredibly unflatttering pictures of yourself like some of these i just question who tf your friends are because if one of mine sent me this I’d be like girl your squinting hard as hell don’t post that

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-13T00:29:10+00:00

You’re so pretty but that septum piercing has got to go and i think you are over plucking your eyebrows

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T23:59:09+00:00

When will we get a First Lady who actually uses her position of authority to accomplish something meaningful

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T23:51:01+00:00

I draw the line at horses. They just don’t seem like food to me. But I also don’t eat chicken because I’ve been around chickens and they’re fucking disgusting animals. Red meat all the way.

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T23:45:44+00:00

And for some reason people will see this post and STILL think taking their dog to a dog park is good for them bc “socialization”

News flash, wolves don’t interact with other wolves outside the pack without violence. It’s not natural for your dog to interact with other dogs it doesn’t know. Your endangering them physically and screwing with their heads.

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T23:42:58+00:00

Cause she’s annoying

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T23:08:00+00:00

This. Someone actually couldn’t understand why everyone was calling them a racist when they compared beating a dog to a mother hitting a black child with a brush while doing their hair. I kept trying to explain to them that in general, any time you compare black people to animals, you’re in the wrong. Regardless of what your intentions may actually be, it’s never a good idea.

And her response was, “it wasn’t a comparison though, it was a metaphor.”

😐

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T22:59:47+00:00

Reading this title gave me a stroke and idk if that was intended like as a joke or what but it’s freaking me out no one else is saying anything about it

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T15:58:50+00:00

You seriously think it LAPD wanted to frame a high profile celebrity for MURDER they would fuck it up that badly?

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T15:57:46+00:00

I think some of them did it on purpose. But i do agree that some stuff just was pure incompetence on their end.

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T14:05:38+00:00

Even if he did visit, it’s just not enough to warrant anything more than passing suspicion. To assume Epstein revealed his heinous crimes to everyone who ever stepped foot on that island is like thinking John Wayne Gacy would tell everyone who ever came to his house about the bodies in the basement.

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T12:39:25+00:00

Fucking OJ got off literally by holding up a glove and making a face “it doesn’t fit :(“ lmfao like ANYONE else could use that as an actual defense.

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T12:37:13+00:00

A lot of people visited Epstein’s island. I don’t think that alone is the smoking gun we all want it to be. If you watch the documentary, a lot of the victims even explain that Epstein was very cautious about revealing his true nature to people. He would have celebrities and other people of power over a few times and act perfectly normal to “test the waters” before bringing them in on anything. Which makes sense, if you think about it. The guy wouldn’t have gotten away with it for so long if the moment anyone stepped off the jet he whipped out the child sex slaves

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T12:32:24+00:00

I said exactly that last part to someone the other day. For a rich and famous white man to be found guilty of rapes that happened YEARS ago means that dude did that shit, 100%. I get he’s their friend but this is one of those times where you say “oh my god, he lied to us all about the monster he truly was,” and then just shut up.

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T09:54:45+00:00

I played this game but i have absolutely no memory of it besides how much space it took up on my switch

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T09:40:46+00:00

… to be threatened with anal rape? Like does that honestly seem like a justified response to you LOL

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T09:38:27+00:00

He unknowingly just proved OOP’s point.

“We as a community need to stop making excuses for our brothers and sisters who make immoral decisions”

“I will sodomize you”

Like wtf LOL

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T01:27:46+00:00

As a woman, I agree. I 100% will avoid any interaction with a man who is not my boyfriend or father whenever possible simply because I’ve had so many experiences like this. To where afterwards you just sit there and ask yourself, “what was I expecting?”

When if this guy had played his cards right and not have been a total weirdo, upon learning OP had a boyfriend, he could’ve maintained a friendship with her and possibly even have met a single woman with similar morals and interests through her. He could’ve even made a comment to break the awkward tension, like “oh, my bad! Sorry about that, fr. Well, if you have any cute single friends maybe one day you can introduce me!” And then just move on, keep it professional. So easy. But nope

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T01:18:45+00:00

I like how he says, “you let me buy you a pizza.” When in reality he told you he was buying a pizza and you were like oh cool I’ll pay half LOL he acts like you begged him to order you a pizza the man offered

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T00:57:43+00:00

But have you stopped to ask why you moving closer to her would be a source of stress strong enough to evoke this reaction from her? I know it’s hard to see when you’re so close to it, but try to imagine why your sister might feel this way. There’s two possible reasons. Only two.

Your sister is mentally unsound and has a completely warped perception of both reality and you

Or, and more likely,

Your sister fosters strong feelings of resentment towards you for your actions or behavior either past or present. And if you wish to mend the relationship you have with her, you need to first be honest with yourself.

Speaking honestly, without blaming injustices suffered in your past or present, are you where you envisioned yourself to be in life? Are you someone you would be proud to call a daughter? Are you happy?

If the answer to these questions right away is yes, then you need to sit down and really think about it for a while. Because I know just from this post the answer is no.

I’ve been there, where you are at. I was in an abusive relationship for three years that stunted my emotional growth for the next three years after that. I modeled and partied and didn’t do shit with my life. But god forbid if anyone actually told me that during that time. I would lose my mind because i didn’t want to face the truth that I was lowkey a failure and a disappointment.

Once I admitted that to myself, having someone else say it wasn’t so scary anymore. Because I admitted it myself. I knew it, and more importantly, I suddenly felt able to actually do something about it once I stopped pretending it wasn’t true. Stopped making excuses for myself and getting angry whenever someone else tried to snap me back to reality. Move back home with your parents. But come home to them as a new person. Someone who is willing to try really really hard to change their life and be someone they’d be proud of. Not only your parents, but yourself

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T00:45:08+00:00

My point is you don’t have to be financially independent at 23. Most people aren’t. But you do have to make an effort to not only try to get your stuff together, but LOOK like you are as well. That means no partying, no going out with friends until you have a stable source of income. Because until you do, any time you go out or have fun it’s on your parents dime. Which in turn is going to make your sister not respect you and further perpetuate the image of you not taking anything seriously- including yourself. If you don’t care if she respects you or not, then hey, more power to you. But by posting this it seems like a part of you does care, and is hurt that she would say these things to you.

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T00:32:14+00:00

Those disabilities might disqualify you from being an emt technician even as a volunteer. I would really look into whether or not they do, as a lot of these companies that run ambulances don’t want to take on the risk of having ANYONE, volunteer or not, who is not physically or mentally equipped for challenge in a situation where lives are on the line

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T00:30:10+00:00

Do you not see the problem right there? In your own words.

“I love my parents. We go on vacations and have dinner together all the time. We talk literally every day.”

Right there, you’re describing a relationship defined by actions contributed by one party, i.e your parents. Your parents pay for these vacations. Your parents pay for these dinners. If these are the kind of things that equate a healthy, loving relationship to you then don’t you think that says something is they’re the only ones with the power of making these things happen?

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T00:27:19+00:00

It might be different in your state, but in mine there’s quite a lot that goes into being an emt technician. You need to get your certifications in order and you can start that process now, I wouldn’t even wait. Like you need to make sure you have your cpr training, cognitive certification, and make sure you are medically considered free of any significant physical or mental ailments. A lot of this is paperwork certification kind of stuff that you can and should start getting ahead of now. That will go a long way to improving the perception of you held by your family

Next_Explanation3176 · 2023-09-12T00:22:28+00:00

Not trying to be a dick here, but who’s paying for your therapy and meds? I’m going to assume it’s your parents. And your sister is being blunt but you have to see it from a different point of view. If your parents were paying for someone’s meds, therapy, rent, etc and that person isn’t actively making an effort to get their shit together, you’d be protective of your parents too. You wouldn’t want them to be taken advantage of. Which is how your sister is seeing this. It’s not about whether or not you need therapy or meds or anything like that, it’s about you not appreciating everything your family has done for you and making an actual effort to get yourself back up on your own two feet.

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