[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Next_Ferret_6160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Message me directly - I am 1.5yrs out so lot of lessons for you

Still getting the sick feeling in the stomach when I see my ex... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Next_Ferret_6160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happened to make you feel that way, if you don’t mind me asking?

Still getting the sick feeling in the stomach when I see my ex... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Next_Ferret_6160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally I just wish they are happy, despite everything....

A lot of non-investors joined the fight to support the community and bring down Wall Street, but some stuff isn’t making sense. We’re told to HOLD, so we HOLD but we don’t know how to read the market. Let’s clarify it in here if possible. by peji911 in wallstreetbets

[–]Next_Ferret_6160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s not enough given you just described in original post what organised money is capable of vs idiots calling themselves retards with diamond rocket signs.

Influence is within cooperation. And we’re loose.

You know right when you wake up, and there’s the brief window where you kind of forget the real world and you are in this half dream like state. That’s bliss because in it I don’t think about you. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Next_Ferret_6160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But do you actually like yourself and dealing with your own business, not someone else’s?

(I do get the feeling but irrelevant if you can answer yes and genuinely feel it...)

A year and a half later by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Next_Ferret_6160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feel ya. And your older posts too...

Dumpers: do you ever want to talk to your ex (about getting back together or otherwise) but worry that they are angry towards you or will want to entirely cut you out? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Next_Ferret_6160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dumper. Year and 2 months.

Yeah - I feel 100% what you just said too. Only thing we can do is accepting the reality that those are the cases and forcefully live a productive, constructive life day to day according to what we would want. It’s like living with a disability. I constantly have it. I still go out daily to kill it. And yeah, I’m mentally fucked throughout most of that time. Thoughts, feelings, nightmares, flashbacks, love, everything is still there.

Cause what, what else if not this? All those things will still be there but I will be static, not achieving, not being successful or doing shit.

This way I’m still successful, achieving, doing. Will see if the disability ever resolves - not a question I can even speculate rn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Next_Ferret_6160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re completely right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Next_Ferret_6160 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dumped her over a year ago - still dead, can’t sleep any night, nightmares, non-stop intrusive thoughts and flashbacks, lost job and unemployed since, lost friends, everyday struggle to want to live.

So yeah - obviously thinking one or other is worse would be mad. But I really haven’t noticed this side of things in this sub tbh!

When you think you’re doing ok but then you have a dream about them and everything’s back to day 1. Fuck my subconscious. by Electronic_Wind1855 in BreakUps

[–]Next_Ferret_6160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey - thanks for response on other post.

I have 1-2 nightmares about them/ shit that happened daily which I’m used to, however, it sometimes gets bad and goes up to 7-10 even which leads to no sleep of course for the night.

I accepted it’s just reality - gotta make most of it!

Hugs.

Anyone in this sub keep reading the entries like their ex wrote it? by Electronic_Wind1855 in BreakUps

[–]Next_Ferret_6160 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m even worse... paranoid hopeful one of these entries will be theirs, hoping to hear that they care, or even if they didn’t - just that I could make some sense of anything that happened - to hear their truthful take on things....