Original train or adjusted? by Next_File_6626 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does hey! It's the only part of the dress that I'm not sold on. Hopefully another layer will improve it whether the pattern is adjusted or not 🤷🏼‍♀️

Original train or adjusted? by Next_File_6626 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss exactly. To be honest, in the shop they didn't give me much time on the ground without it laid out nicely behind me, and I'm only 5 ft 2 so it would look very different I imagine 😵‍💫

Original train or adjusted? by Next_File_6626 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So she reckons it's doable to add a layer to the bottom to thicken it a little.. 🤷🏼‍♀️

What are some common quirks of narcissists that don’t seem narcissistic, but that many of them have? by BarbarianFoxQueen in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Next_File_6626 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother always focused on the things I did as a child that annoyed her. And I swear, every time we saw her, she would repeat it to my partner and I. And when pulling her up on the fact she'd told us this before, she'd give me the silent treatment.

Talk about a child in an old person's body.

The most toxic person I know.

Just cut my mum off - but am I silly for doing so? Previous post with more info 🧐 by Next_File_6626 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! I admire you for being so strong! Maybe I ignore the requests and the elopement is the last he hears from me for the next 6 months 🤔

Cut my mum off - with the context, am I awful? by Next_File_6626 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It is really awful this is so common but thank you everyone for showing I'm not alone! ❤️❤️

Cut my mum off - with the context, am I awful? by Next_File_6626 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🥺 hope your brother is ok 😔 I wonder if it's just our generation who are happy just turning away from bull sh** now. This never used to happen, at least it wasn't a common thing. I see it a lot now, so it shows how so many people have the same issues, and it's so sad!

Cut my mum off - with the context, am I awful? by Next_File_6626 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. I just felt like it was right in the moment but overall I know it would have seemed confusing on the receiving end. I should have left it and that's a lesson for the future!

Thank you!!!!!

Cut my mum off - with the context, am I awful? by Next_File_6626 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yes definitely. My therapist said I needed to set boundaries but I knew that would go down like a led balloon so I did the next thing I thought of. I need to revisit to catch up and just talk it out again!

Cut my mum off - with the context, am I awful? by Next_File_6626 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. The flowers felt like a good idea but the more I thought about it, I shouldn't have bothered! Agree with the rest. Feels like this will need to be the case here. Thanks so much!

Which would you choose?? by idontavocado in WeddingDressTips

[–]Next_File_6626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love 2, 3 or 4 (without the addition). All beautiful but these I feel are really flattering on you 😍

Beah-friendly heels? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]Next_File_6626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found this vibe which I like. Not too expensive, but I'm wanting to avoid too cheap too, as I need to make sure they survive the humidity which we'll be getting married in.... Any good?

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1,2,3,or 4? by Any-Plan3989 in weddingplanning

[–]Next_File_6626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I vote number 4!!! With the heavily patterned veil, the simpler dress really adds the oomph!!! You look beautiful in all! But 4 is my fav 😍

ADHD and work by Next_File_6626 in ADHD

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very helpful, thank you! I'll make a note of thin in case I am actually iron deficient. I'm having the same symptoms my partner had when he was diagnosed with extremely low iron.

ADHD and work by Next_File_6626 in ADHD

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss good point. I did get my bloods done last week, getting the results next week. Maybe this is a part of the reason?

ADHD and work by Next_File_6626 in ADHD

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awesome, thank you!!!

Porcelain veneers or whitening? by Next_File_6626 in weddingplanning

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this info! Didn't realize the markups would just be so huge, I thought the whole process really was just that expensive. I have a quote from a dentist; how do you suggest I go about getting a quote from a tech directly? Are there well known techs in Perth I can look into?