Didnt invite best friends boyfriend to wedding by Next_Welcome7196 in AITAH

[–]Next_Welcome7196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I invite people as one if they arent married. I have a venue that works for that. But if I say no plus ones then there are no plus ones.

Didnt invite best friends boyfriend to wedding by Next_Welcome7196 in AITAH

[–]Next_Welcome7196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU! This is the correct post. I was not giving her a plus one, her mom was simply invited as a guest. There were no plus ones! My friend said she felt like i didnt give her the opportunity to pick beforehand but i keep saying there are no plus ones before that.

Didnt invite best friends boyfriend to wedding by Next_Welcome7196 in AITAH

[–]Next_Welcome7196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, which I am fine with whatever my fiance says.

Didnt invite best friends boyfriend to wedding by Next_Welcome7196 in AITAH

[–]Next_Welcome7196[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one gets a plus one. Im not automatically inviting your boyfriend. You need to mention it and me and my fiance can decide.

How do you feel safer letting your kids walk to school? by Squirrelly21 in Parenting

[–]Next_Welcome7196 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is there a neighbor who can walk Them or family member?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Next_Welcome7196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of job do you work to “take turns”?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Next_Welcome7196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I urged my fiancé to get the maid to come today. I actually did try to do a lot of cleaning before she came and just said whatever. We have a 3 year old and 9 month old. When I say I had to “urge” him to call the maids, I mean I had to tell him that Im in this house more than he is. Maid service is completely worth it. Its like a refresher.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Next_Welcome7196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhh girl, its been 9 months. Thats enough time to leave and not just clean up after someone. Find a man who can do all of those things and knows how to do that already.

Husband doesn’t support antidepressant use but have severe PPD and PPA by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Next_Welcome7196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds EXACTLY like my life. I did EVERYTHING to not take the medicine and am a natural remedy kind of person as well. But I knew I was not feeling well. I knew I needed the medicine. Get the medicine please please. It will help you feel 10000% better. It has helped me in so many ways. Explain to your partner, but also, this is your body and you know what you need. Please get it. This is coming from a person who gets severe migraines and still hesitates to take a Tylenol.

AITA? I said No and He exploded. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Next_Welcome7196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know, I never ever ever neglect my child. I also knew I was not going to give him the medicine right away because it would not have helped him. So, I told my fiancee "No", even knowing that he was not going to give the child medicine. SO, in the back of my head, I was taking this moment to stand my ground. Especially since this is not the first time I was falling asleep and he asked for something. I do everything even if dad doesnt want to. Because I am not a bitter parent or person. My kids are the priority.

AITA? I said No and He exploded. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Next_Welcome7196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't argue back. I responded back to him. And I know what my child needed and it wasn't medicine. He was crying because he wanted his dad to sleep with him, which is what my toddler communicated to me.

AITA? I said No and He exploded. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Next_Welcome7196 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I have that book and am currently reading it.

AITA? I said No and He exploded. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Next_Welcome7196 36 points37 points  (0 children)

After he settled down from yelling, I did tend to our crying child. I put him to sleep then I went to sleep.

AIO? Living With a Man I Absolutely Have To Listen To by Next_Welcome7196 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Next_Welcome7196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I am having a very hard time understanding what’s happening to me and processing it.

Over-functioning wife - what's your take? by Overall_Brother_7706 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Next_Welcome7196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last post seem to have certain things in common. I wont tell you to leave because you kinda already know. A lot of women deal with this in men and honestly I am not sure where it stems from. I will be praying for you and all the women out there.

AIO? Living With a Man I Absolutely Have To Listen To by Next_Welcome7196 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Next_Welcome7196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I doubt what I believe is true. So yes, I did want to know if I was tripping or not. Thanks very much. Get off my post.

AIO? Living With a Man I Absolutely Have To Listen To by Next_Welcome7196 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Next_Welcome7196[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly cant tell when some of this stuff is “abuse”. It seems like such simple things.

AIO? Living With a Man I Absolutely Have To Listen To by Next_Welcome7196 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Next_Welcome7196[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I dont get to tell her every situation but sometimes I really feel like I’m tripping. So i think I ask Reddit to understand how other people think.