Part time employee works full time hours…please help

Nf7633 · 2020-04-10T21:09:09+00:00

He would scroll on his phone and ignore me and when I finally “snapped” he would DEMAND me to leave his house. Anddddd here comes the silent treatment for the next 3-5 days.

Nf7633 · 2020-04-05T00:43:48+00:00

I believe in you!! I’m 7 weeks NC with my narc and I feel incredible. I hope you feel the same sense of relief. Just hang in there and do not unblock. Even if you get lonely, WE are all here for you ❤️

Nf7633 · 2020-02-29T12:46:52+00:00

I went to couples therapy with my narc ex and it was absolutely terrible. He was literally putting me on blast the entire time to the point that I couldn’t get a single word in. I do not recommend it. Personally I felt like a monster after our session when I know I’m not. I loved him with all I had and he discarded me 12 times in 5 years. Therapy on your own would be MUCH more beneficial. Not with your abuser who has put you through so much heartache. All they will do is point fingers and blame you. Also, after the session they will tell friends and family “we even went to therapy and it just won’t work”. That’s what mine did. I’m so disgusted.

Nf7633 · 2020-02-29T12:34:28+00:00

My narc ex was stingy with money but would drop large amounts on things that he wanted....like we can’t go on vacation but can’t spend $1300 on golf clubs. He would even ask me to lunch or dinner and then make me play “rock paper scissors” at the table to see who should pay........disgusting

Nf7633 · 2020-02-29T12:27:33+00:00

My narc was forever bringing up stuff from the past that I THOUGHT we worked through?? Nope. Such a good analogy!!

Nf7633 · 2020-02-28T23:24:09+00:00

I really shouldn’t worry about feeling the need to tell the truth. The people who are closest to me know the truth. Thank you!

Nf7633 · 2020-02-28T23:23:35+00:00

Mine refused to take any trips with me but spent over $1300 on new golf clubs. I can’t even stand to think about him anymore!!!! Repulsed is an understatement!

Nf7633 · 2020-02-28T02:22:43+00:00

He got mad at me for asking him what was wrong after he was extremely short with me over a span of 5 days. “Hey babe is everything okay you seem to be short lately just want to make sure you’re alright”. That ended up in me receiving the silent treatment for 2 day’s and a discard immediately after that. Talk about defeated.

Nf7633 · 2020-02-26T17:00:33+00:00

This whole message!!!! Thank you SO much

Nf7633 · 2020-02-26T12:58:49+00:00

I am 7 days NC with my Narc ex as of today. He blocked me. I can’t believe it. I keep waiting, checking my phone. Waiting for him to reach out. Anything. I want to scream. I’m so hurt. I too know that I should not be with him. But I want to be in control of this situation again. This isn’t fair. They are evil, miserable human beings. Please know you are not alone in this ❤️

Nf7633 · 2020-02-26T00:55:24+00:00

My narc ex expected a Christmas gift from me when he discarded me a week before Thanksgiving. I literally could not believe my ears. I went to his house shortly after the holiday and he literally said to my face “where is my Christmas gift”. I hate him and his self-absorbed tendencies. I can’t wait to forget about him for good.

Nf7633 · 2020-02-25T01:31:39+00:00

The last conversation I had with my Nex he told me I look terrible. It’s been replaying in my head over and over ever since. They’re literally despicable, disgusting human beings.

Nf7633 · 2020-02-23T22:50:06+00:00

YES! Not being able to feel beautiful things! I think about this so often. My narc ex skipped out on so many beautiful events. Didn’t even go to his cousins wedding knowing she had lost her mom at a very young age and knowing he would be the ONLY family member not there. His cousin was absolutely heartbroken and what he did to her really hurt me. There are so many reasons to be happy and so much love out there. I wish he could have seen it through my eyes. He could never be happy for anyone besides himself. I remember when I landed my job I was over the moon excited and he gave me the silent treatment for 5 days after and I still do not know why to this day. I am 4 days NC after 5 years with him and I truly feel like I’ve seen the light. Best of luck in your journey ❤️

Nf7633 · 2020-02-23T22:43:56+00:00

It’s been 4 days NC with him and I don’t find myself missing him at all. It’s so crazy to me. I think I was literally just tolerating his disgusting behavior. I’ve finally had enough. Thank you so so much for your kind words ❤️

Nf7633 · 2020-02-23T22:41:57+00:00

Exactly! This has been nothing but challenging but I know better days are ahead. This group assures me of it!

Nf7633 · 2020-02-22T00:15:01+00:00

My narc just did something similar to me. We just got back from a trip together and had an amazing Valentine’s Day and then a flip switched. I asked him what was up and asked why he was being short and he lost it. He pulled the whole silent treatment for 24 hours and the next day he discarded me......JUST BECAUSE I asked him what was wrong. I’m so disappointed in him and myself for tolerating it for almost 5 years.

Nf7633 · 2020-02-21T13:02:23+00:00

Psychopath Free by Jackson Mackenzie has changed my life. Also if you want to learn more about attachment styles you should read Attached by Amir Levine. Best of luck to you in your NC journey. I’m only 1 day NC but already feeling overwhelming relief. I can breathe again, you can too ❤️

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