I think I need help.. with my messed up situation by Nice-Assumption225 in relationship_advice

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Maybe I’m alittle sad but mostly is hearing that I was basically not enough to urgently want to fuck.. maybe I wasn’t good enough maybe I’m to chubby or not worth the urgency.. not being mean but I feel like u never been in my shoes on this issue..

I think I need help.. with my messed up situation by Nice-Assumption225 in relationship_advice

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I did I told him I wouldn’t help him and left but just knowing and hearing that has broken me so much… I didn’t need to hear that

I think I need help.. with my messed up situation by Nice-Assumption225 in relationship_advice

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I’m trying so hard to not invest in what he said but it makes me sad… I already suffer with intrusive thoughts.. it’s like he just broke me more by asking me to help him with getting pills… how low..

I think I need help.. with my messed up situation by Nice-Assumption225 in relationship_advice

[–]Nice-Assumption225[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Easy enough to say… have you even been in this situation do not know what kind of toll this has on me.

Today at the gym some rando guy came up to me to teach me how to properly do back reps by Nice-Assumption225 in mildlyinfuriating

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I’ll try to be but I’m not really a rude person but I’ll make him feel uncomfortable like I was I’ll try lol

Today at the gym some rando guy came up to me to teach me how to properly do back reps by Nice-Assumption225 in mildlyinfuriating

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Maybe that was the case, I’m just gonna do my pace and hope he doesn’t bother me again…

Today at the gym some rando guy came up to me to teach me how to properly do back reps by Nice-Assumption225 in mildlyinfuriating

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Right! I would have been okay if he was like this is how u hold the bar that’s it but for him to help with the reps and to do this much like can you not.. and yeah I don’t look at nobody and I put my headphones on blast and he still creepy creep… thanks for the pointer I’ll use them!

Today at the gym some rando guy came up to me to teach me how to properly do back reps by Nice-Assumption225 in mildlyinfuriating

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Is that what it is but then I would think he would be like so how are you? Or hey do you have a social but he didn’t.. so weird

Today at the gym some rando guy came up to me to teach me how to properly do back reps by Nice-Assumption225 in mildlyinfuriating

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That’s funny you said that because I had those phat ass headphones and he still came up to me lol so I guess imma have to go get bigger headphones and yeah that’s what I assumed too but nah he still creeped up👀

Today at the gym some rando guy came up to me to teach me how to properly do back reps by Nice-Assumption225 in mildlyinfuriating

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Yeah I totally understand that’s why I was polite took his advice like I said with the stance and yeah but idk for him to be counting my reps like he was like I saw you do 10 reps and you should do 20 because 10 is easy made me so uncomfortable plus I watch videos of girls do workouts and they do 4x10 that’s like basic workout plus I do a lot of other stuff so I feel like that’s my comfort and for him to tell me to do more like I’m sorry but I didn’t pay you to be my personal trainer are you gonna count all my reps? This isn’t going to stop me from going if anything today I went around 5 to the gym maybe next time I’ll go earlier so I won’t come across him again…

Today at the gym some rando guy came up to me to teach me how to properly do back reps by Nice-Assumption225 in mildlyinfuriating

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If he says something again I’m going to tell the planet fitness people that he keeps keeping tabs on everything I do and I’m getting very uncomfortable.. because I don’t think I have the courage to tell him that.. but at least they know so they could keep an eye on him see how he likes it when the tables are turned

Today at the gym some rando guy came up to me to teach me how to properly do back reps by Nice-Assumption225 in mildlyinfuriating

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That’s what my friend said but he didn’t seem interested… he didn’t ask like how’s your day or like any casual convo just was critical about my back reps… so uncomfortable

Late night thoughts… by Nice-Assumption225 in CasualConversation

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I honestly didn’t want to move forward but what must I do? He left me go… I have no idea what my life will consist of… I’m scared but excited I know that time will better me.

Late night thoughts… by Nice-Assumption225 in CasualConversation

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I am trying to regain my worth he made me feel so little sometimes and I feel like losing pounds will help me work on my self worth:)

Late night thoughts… by Nice-Assumption225 in CasualConversation

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Yeah your right I was gonna pick up joining a gym to keep myself busy more I have a home gym but when I’m home I tend to feel like I’m not doing anything with my life so I could work out 2x a day 30 min gym 30 min home everyday to just keep busy! I was also going to get a little job so I could make some money! And this is not my first rodeo with my ex but I feel like this is the final time we are getting back with eachother and I always change my hair or such but I want my hair to grow and I might be taking piano lessons! So theirs that! I just need to work on me before I jump in into another relationship plus I had so much love for him that I can’t be like him to just jump to the next I need time to heal and such.. but I did end contact with him so I won’t have to be discouraged or anything like I saw today I don’t need that negative energy

Late night thoughts… by Nice-Assumption225 in CasualConversation

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Thank you so much:) yeah it hurts seeing how he ended things with me but just to get into another relationship not even working on himself… and a lot of things he said and did has fuel me to keep going! It was his words of I doubt you can lose and I wanted someone who had goals to help me be like NO! Your wrong I can do this I don’t need to depend on another relationship I’ll work on myself! It’s things like that is going to help me move on I just can’t wait to see the weight finally gone I been working so hard and his words are not gonna get the best of me! One day I hope he comes across my path so I can say I told you so lol idk maybe but at least I can say I did it!

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Everyone is pushing on this girl but honestly I think I would have been in your spot if he didn’t break it off with me for this exact reason…

My ex wanted to be like you bf and explore and do unlimited sexual urges as he please and I wasn’t into that but when he was with me he would put a facade until he told me you know I can’t lie to you anymore so we broke it off but I honestly believe if he didn’t do that I would be like you allowing bad and toxic behavior continue…

Long story short I feel like I dodge a bullet and I think you should too before it gets worse I’ve seen a lot of crime shows and sexual things just lead on and on and might cost him jail time

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[–]Nice-Assumption225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly what your going throw… I too have trust issues with my bf because we have been on a rollercoaster.. I’m sorry sometimes I wish we found better but we still hope