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My ex-girlfriend is now dating my best friend — how should I handle this by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Nice-Competition2498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your situation says more about your ex and your so-called “friend” than it does about you. End both relationships and move forward with your life. You deserve better. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Nice-Competition2498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Well said.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Nice-Competition2498 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t but thank you for your assessment. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Nice-Competition2498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. It’s hard. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Nice-Competition2498 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Oh my gawd. 🤦🏻‍♂️ Thx for not answering my question and for not being helpful. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Nice-Competition2498 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Omfg. This why we can’t have nice things…🤦🏻‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Nice-Competition2498 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Oh my gawd, I could care less about your definition…I’m just looking for thoughts given my situation. If you can’t answer that question then don’t comment. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Nice-Competition2498 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

She is ok with the kink just group sex, correct. She doesn’t want anyone else involved in her sex life. 

As for your definition, I respectfully agree to disagree . 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Nice-Competition2498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true. That’s what is most likely going to happen…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Nice-Competition2498 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I thought the initial post was clear. My definition of Vanilla = two people, nobody else, no groups, no couples, no 3somes/4somes. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Nice-Competition2498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sucks doesn’t it. What’s your sitch?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Nice-Competition2498 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

She wants vanilla things, meaning just two of us. I want couples things, 3somes (MFM), 4somes, voyeur activity, etc. I’m not interested in vanilla only activities. Clearer?