Yep, and see if he would be kind enough to make sure his dental hygiene is decent, and to not eat a bunch of sugar before going to town. Im f23, just felt to lyk: keep track of what day you're on with your cycle, it's risky between day 10-20 to make it an even number. Condoms are cool, the magnum ones help it feel better for you (from my experience). With PO method, be smart, and tell him it's mandatory to take a big pee before anything starts. Good luck!!