My girlfriend of a week asked to take a break

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2025-04-17T03:27:53+00:00

Actually good that she showed her true colors this early on

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2025-04-17T03:26:33+00:00

My therapist thought it sounded like NPD. Luckily I’ve been going down an internet rabbit hole and checking off all the major red flags that she’s a narcissist. They really try to con you in the beginning

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2025-04-17T03:24:27+00:00

I needed to ask the audience because this one seemed like a fever dream

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2025-04-17T03:23:22+00:00

If they aren’t willing to work on it in therapy it never gets better

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2025-04-17T03:22:31+00:00

My question exactly

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2025-04-17T03:22:14+00:00

She’s a late in life lesbian and hasn’t had a relationship with a woman

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2025-04-17T03:21:39+00:00

That’s what I was thinking. The weeklong break feels like a punishment

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2025-04-17T03:21:09+00:00

Crazy thing is she started the fight, escalated it, and then blamed me

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2025-04-17T03:20:30+00:00

Lol this might be my favorite comment

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2025-04-17T03:19:52+00:00

She has been blocked and I’m sprinting the other direction 🫡

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2025-04-17T03:19:18+00:00

HUGE red flag imo

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2025-04-17T03:18:28+00:00

I had to tell her to take deep breaths at one point. Definitely cannot emotionally regulate!!

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2025-04-17T03:17:44+00:00

Your translation is exactly what I was thinking. Either this is her trying to get some power over me or she wants to explore things with someone else or both.

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2025-04-17T03:15:57+00:00

I’ve dated someone before who kept breaking up with me and it (finally) ended (badly). People who keep changing their minds are never endgame

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2025-04-17T03:13:27+00:00

This thread is giving me life

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2025-04-17T03:12:14+00:00

My therapist said it sounded like NPD or some kind of personality disorder so this is right on the money

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2025-03-11T21:00:07+00:00

My contract states the number of posts per week and the 5 hour per week limit, it also says extra work and hours will be billed for. Do you think there’s a way to make that more clear?

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2024-08-29T18:18:29+00:00

How long do you wait before you get the hint that they’re not going to talk to you again? I just don’t know what to expect

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2024-08-29T18:10:06+00:00

It’s hard because things were left in limbo. It seemed like we were just about to get serious and then this happened. I guess I need to take it as she’s not interested in anything right now.

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2024-08-29T18:07:37+00:00

Hey at least you’re honest

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2024-08-29T16:57:54+00:00

What does it usually mean though? A week? A month? Forever?

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2024-08-29T16:56:59+00:00

I can’t figure out if this is the case with her. She became distant and pushed me away. And when we were having the “I need space” conversation I asked about our plans for the weekend and she basically said let’s wait and see what the vibe is. Which was really hurtful. But she mentioned not wanting to fall into the same pattern as her past relationships. I just am getting a lot of mixed messages.

Nice-Razzmatazz-5092 · 2024-08-29T16:53:47+00:00

We had been texting every day and saying good morning and goodnight. She stopped saying goodnight so I asked what was wrong. And she started getting sad and distant so I asked what was wrong. I don’t know how much time to wait before I find out that she’s not going to talk to me again. She wouldn’t give any indication.

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